1ClassyLady 68F
3126 posts
4/3/2015 9:03 am
The scammers from United Kingdom


johnj1965

johnj1965 49, lives in London, UK
Fool and goat like you good luck
I reported him "Offensive behavior or other violation of terms of service" because he used malicious language toward me. He is 10 years younger and lives too far away.


johnj1965 profile has been deactivated on April 3, 2015 at 9:52 a.m. Pacific coast time.

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Johnny7372


Johnny7372
44, lives in Aldershut, UK
Hi

I came across your Profile picture here and I became interested in knowing you more, this is a social network which one can make friends.I hope we can be friends right? take care and waiting for your reply.

Regards,

john.

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bbullbruce
bbullbruce 47, lives in Bury, UK
Hi dear, how are you? I came across your profile here and I'll like to be your friend, I'll be waiting for your reply.
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GordonBuchan2
GordonBuchan2 54, lives in Manchester, UK
Hi,
It's my pleasure to browse through your profile and I was attracted to your personality. I will appreciate to communicate with you so that we can share more about us.. Also let us make opportunity for each other to build a good relationship in the future. And I will be glad to keep in touch with you and see where God will lead us in future I will stop here now and I look forward to hear from you soon.
Gordon.

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Albert910

Albert910
52, lives in Aldershut, UK
Hello, How are you doing?

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RichGrocott 54, lives in Aldershut, UK
His profile has been deactivated
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Those are just some of the guys who emailed me from UK for the past 30 days. They keep coming and now using offensive language.




Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
4/11/2015 12:31 am

    Quoting  :

Trust is a major issue for online dating. If they live in UK, how can fly over to meet you? How can you trust the person live so far away.

Most bloggers here are REAL people. However, they don't email you, Am I right? Because real people know "Distance is an insurmountable obstacle. Some bloggers wrote very good blogs and have their particular taste.

Those scammer wrote email like this "Hi beautiful" "Hello gorgeous" "I came cross to your profile and your smile caught my attention", "I am new to this site and my subscription will be expired tomorrow". Don't read those stupid emails. Their sweet talks are showing they are morons. Don't let those "Sweetie", "Drop dead gorgeous" words fool you. I have seen too many. REAL people don't email like that.

Everyday, I receive those scam email. I just got one an hour ago. So, I report to Chinese FriendFinder by calling toll-free # and they got deactivated.

Don't pay too much attention about those scammer blogs because it is NOT ethical in a way. I am pissed with those scammers contacted me or pretended they are someone else, i.e. U.S. Army Generals, Cardiologist doctor, or CEO of art gallery, .... I probably on their "Black List". They are underestimate me. That johnj1965 probably been deactivated because I reported him that's why he was mad about me. NEVER let anyone know your full name. So, those scammers provided their full name are fake names.

In short, REAL people is different from fake. Usually scammers are easy to be caught because their English are poor.

Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
4/10/2015 11:51 pm

It is very simple, PolarisSg. They all live in UK. Are they willing to come to Singapore to meet you? To know a person, needs many many meets. Can he afford airfare to come to see you??? He is NOT only email you and me. He is prospecting "easy target" women. After one or two emails, they will provide email address to contact outside and then ask for MONEY. They do NOT want to be your friend or meet you in person. Why do you want a scammer?

Do NOT dream you are the Cinderella or fairy tale story will happen on you. Sorry, I have to say it to let you know the truth.

Distance is an insurmountable obstacle. Because the "distance", people can cheat you, disguise whoever they want to be.

You have to learn how to read their email and profile. You are NOT a subscriber so you can't read their full profile. That is even more dangerous. Okay, if in their emails they didn't mention anything about you (what your profile said), chance are they are fake. All they said is "distance is NOT important when two people in love", "Age is just number". Those are B.S. (Hope you know what B.S. mean)

Young lady, you have much to learn. If you want a pen-pal to practice English, you need to read their emails talk about what you wrote in your profile. That's mean they really read your profile. I have provided my first name in my profile, but only about 5 - 7 people saw my name for the past 10 & 1/2 years and they are the real people really read my profile.

If a person email me without address my first name, I immediately "on guard". Only the subscribers can initiate the emails. The person should read you profile very carefully to show you they are really interested in YOU.

If you email them outside, they will tell you they are in some kind of "Financial crisis". They think Asian Women will sympathize them and wire MONEY to them (I read a woman posted many blogs about wired $500 USD to someone she has NEVER met but only email). Do NOT sympathize any man. I have sympathized my ex-husband who is a dentist. I don't want to digress, but please DO NOT SYMPATHIZE ANY MAN. You start the wrong foot.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
4/6/2015 7:21 am

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Why all the scammers (male or female) live in Aldershot, UK? I received a lot of them from there.

Go figure !



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
4/5/2015 8:07 am

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Jealous, I guess. He thought he emailed me to insult me and nobody will know what he said. I made this in public so every blogger knows.

I don't like people insult me so I made it public. I don't keep quiet and let him think that I can't do anything about him. That johnj1965 has been deactivated.
Outstanding12345 also insulted me, but I can't make him deactivated. I put up a blog to let everyone know Asia Friendfinder software had problem. Standard member can't read the full profile, but only a small thumbnail that should NOT count as 1 view. My computer cursor probably accidentally on his photo and he thought I viewed his entire profile. Okay, even I viewed his profile, it doesn't mean that I like him or interested in him. I want him to know. He insulted me. I don't like him. Look his dark photo. He maybe NOT a scammer but he certainly NOT an outstanding person. Shame on him.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
4/3/2015 9:55 am

Do you believe those photos and locations??? Why did they contact me from far away??? They are having financial problems??? Can you trust them??? Not me, I don't.

I blocked all of them.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
4/3/2015 9:14 am

Shame on them. Hall of shame.



Honesty is the best policy.