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1ClassyLady 68F
3122 posts
8/18/2015 6:20 pm
Trust
Any relationship should be based on "Trust". If you can't trust each other, please don't even start it. Trust your own judgement, your instinct and intelligence. My motto is "Honesty is the best policy". Be honest to yourself and others. Trust yourself and don't sell yourself short.

I have read a young lady put up many blogs complained about a scammer she contacted outside and been scammed $500 to save a stranger. That scammer continue to ask for more for different story. What's wrong with this girl who trusted a scammer??? If she donated to charity, she can wipe out income tax from the and save some unfortunate people.

We are all adults. We are responsible to our acts. I am NOT here to give anyone lecture, but I want everyone to identify scammers from REAL people. You have nobody to complain to if you trusted a scammer.

Also, if you chat with a person who only talking about nasty things, stop immediately and leave the chat room. If you continue, they will think you are one of them. You need to protect yourself first.

I am a very honest person. I am a real person. I don't lie. No need to lie. I have known to a banker CEO/President/Chairman for 9 years and 3 months. We trust each other as good friends, admire each other with wisdom. He is a busy businessman on many Board that related to his banking business. We have met many times (not as many as I wish), but only hugs and hold hands. He taught me the big picture of our country's economy, current events, ... etc. We have near 8,000 emails so far. He sometimes emailed me from Spain, China, or Las Vegas,... on his trips. He is a honest person and told me about his past. He was on Yahoo Personals for only short 3 months and closed account since 2006. I am very fortunate to know him. His advice often benefit me in real estate and stock market investments. I always appreciate him. He is the one in a million, chance of a lifetime friend. So, there is a REAL people I can trust.
Do you trust anyone besides of your parents?
Can you be trusted?
Can you identify a scammer from real person?
Do you follow your own criteria?
Do you trust me?
Are you honest?
Have you ever been cheated or scammed?

Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
8/19/2015 6:03 pm
    Quoting beautifulkayra:
    Yes..I trust many, sisters, kids, and also some friends..

    They trust me too.
    I often asked some friends to join when I involved in donation projects.
    Those who wanted to donate would sent me their money without even asked for the receipt.

    The builders, I trust them too.
    I told them I start relationships with trust. Untill I find different facts about it, then usually I stop.

    Do I trust you?
    Yes, I do, Pharmacist.
    And I never been scammed.
    Thanks GOD for that.
Kayra:

I don't trust EVERYONE. I don't trust scammers, weaker men who only want take advantage.

Men and Women have different concepts of LOVE. Men want "hard core sex", young and pretty face and large breast, ... After the passionate sex, men turn away. To them, women is for SEX only. Women want "protection and security". Women want men to take care of them.

In my life, I always the stronger one. I took care my ex-husband (from giving him Green Card, cars, houses, furniture, 2 kids, ....), my daughter (she is easy to raise up), my son (he is the lazy one like his father), my mother to her death. Nobody take care of me. I am a giver. The community property law is on the weaker side.

When I first time met that banker, he taught me economy, financial, real estate, .... those are his expertise. That's why I admire him. I trust him. He has never gave me money, I used my own money to invest in real estate and stock market. He only told me the "timing" and "location".

I donated my mini-van to "Blind Society" as transportation. A guy came to pick-up that van and gave me a receipt which I can deduct my income tax. My daughter donate her hair to cancer society and blood to Red Cross. I had anemia, so I don't donate my blood. I am short hair all my life, so couldn't donate my hair.


Honesty is the best policy.