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Interested in Couples or Groups, say What !!?? I am NOT a paid member and can't read anyone's profile entirely. However, I can read some information from the beginning of a profile, if I have my computer mouse over the photo. I make sure that my "Viewing Activity Viability" is invisible and view profiles discreetly. To my surprise, many men who are interested in "Women, Couples or Groups". What is interested in Couples or Groups??? They watch people having sex or exchange spouses? I certainly understand that "married people" come to FriendFinder sites to look for friendship or bloggers, but for Couples or Groups is too kinky for me. I wonder what their intentions are. I also understand LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) Community's sexual preferences. Well, at least they are "monogamous", right?? But "Couples", or "Groups" are too weird for me to understand. It is too far beyond my comprehension". Why do FriendFinder sites allow those who are interested in "Couples" or "Groups" to exist here?? Can someone explain to me these concepts? Because I really can't accept "Couples" or "Group" concepts. For those who viewed my profile or emailed me that interested in "Couples" or "Groups", I want you to know it is "deal breaker" for sure. For other online dating sites such as Match or Our Time, they don't even allow "married people". They accept at least separated, divorced, widowed, and single (never been married) and "heterosexual" only. Honesty is the best policy. |
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Wonder what are the stat's on people in these situations as to relationship longevity? I have provided my first name in my profile and enlarged 5 times larger. Somehow, those Gold members didn't address me with my first name. None of those Gold members saw my first name. They usually much younger and live far, far away even in other countries. I am here for blogs only. Just come on Chinese FriendFinder and SFF to talk about current events, sharing some jokes, ..... Match and Our Time don't have blogs. SFF has lots of blogs (more than AFF) but they are whole bunch of very religious people who defense for their GOD and very bully republicans. They jumped on me on Religion and Politics, but enjoy my weekend jokes. Honesty is the best policy.
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Wonder what are the stat's on people in these situations as to relationship longevity?
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I have noticed lots of men answered "interested in Couples or Groups" but never seen any woman answered "interested in Couples or Groups". However, I have seen many profiles posted "husband and wife" photos on Senior FF sites. Those "Couples" profile viewed my profile and appeared on my blogs and wrote comments. Most of them are very religious and bully republicans. I feel uncomfortable because I don't know who wrote the comments, husband or wife??. There are many women on blogger side admit they are happily married on Senior FF site. Honesty is the best policy.
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I wish Chinese FriendFinder and SFF don't have this "interest in" questions for member to answer. Most of time, I felt those who answered "interested in Couples or Groups" are scammers from Africa because they either didn't read or scam the more the merrier. Anyway, thanks for your explanation that made me more comfortable - Friendship rather than sex. I have same profile on Match and Our Time and they don't ask this kind of question and don't allow "married people" join their sites. It is rather strange question to me. This is online dating sites so it is easy for people to think about sex. Anyway, I always decline those "married men" or "interested in Couples or Groups". Honesty is the best policy.
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There was a guy emailed me from Senior FF who is interested in Women, Couples or Groups. I know you receive loads of messages, but i guess mine is different (LO  just joking. Anyways am Marco by name. Your picture and profile looks attractive and matured to me. Wouldn't mind to be a friend3/21/2016 10:42 pm My reply to him is You are interested in Women, Couples, or Groups. You like to watch people make love? Group sex? We are NOT a match. Goodbye. You will be blocked. Honesty is the best policy.
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There was a guy from Chinese FriendFinder emailed me who is married man. My names is Don. I'm in Tustin. I'd like to talk with you and exchange pictures. Please let me know if you'd like that. Don 2/12/2016 8:52 am My reply to him is Don: There is ONE deal breaker, YOU ARE A MARRIED MAN. I don't want to involve in a triangle relationship. 2/12/2016 12:43 pm Then he wrote back to me: I understand completely. I don't blame you a bit. I'm very up front and open about my situation. That's why I have it listed in my profile. I would never start a relationship without someone knowing exactly what my situation is. There's a lot more to it, but I won't bore you with the details since it sounds like you wouldn't even consider it with me under any circumstances. I respect your feelings and will not try to exert any pressure. You are a beautiful woman with your choice of men. Just know that there may be things you aren't aware of regarding my situation that may change your viewpoint about me. Anyway, thank you so much for writing back. You really are a special lady. Someone is going to be very lucky to be in your life. My best wishes to you, Don 2/12/2016 12:59 pm Honesty is the best policy.
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