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Weekend joke - Stress Management A young lady confidently walked around the room with a raised glass of water while leading a seminar and explaining stress management to her audience. Everyone knew she was going to ask the ultimate question, 'Half empty or half full?' She fooled them all. "How heavy is this glass of water?" she inquired with a smile. Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz. She replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance. In each case it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes." She continued, "And that's the way it is with stress. If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won't be able to carry on." "As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again. When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden - holding stress longer and better each time practiced. So, as early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don't carry them through the evening and into the night. Pick them up again tomorrow if you must. p.s. As a reminder, I am NOT the original writer of all the "Weekend jokes", so I am NOT responsible for them. Those "weekend jokes" are from my Las Vegas real estate agent weekly. Honesty is the best policy. |
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Warning: Please don't insult my intelligence. I know your intention. Many paid subscribers read my profile and my blog and emailed me on AFF. I have revealed too much information. However, i am not stupid, I know your intention. Please read my profile carefully, I only want qualified males whose ages in between 62 to 72, living within 50 miles of my town, and must have bachelor degrees or above. For those emailed me lately who are too young and live too far will be deleted from read my profile, email me, read my blogs, comment my blogs, or email me. Please DO NOT provide your email address or phone #, because I won't contact you outside for those potential scammers. I will have a travel plan for 36 days and don't want to receive so many junk emails during my travel. It became annoying to receive so many emails in a day. I am not the paid member and can't read anyone's profile. I am on Chinese FriendFinder for the blogs only. I am not interested for those guys younger than me or live too far away. You will be blocked and you can't contact me forever. Honesty is the best policy.
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Actually I feel so very happy after separation. I have the chance to know so many guys (75 guys). Every man I dated is much better than my ex. Of course, the best one is the banker CEO/ Chairman who I have known for 12 years. I gained a lot of knowledge and many English slang and conversation about politics, religion, current event, election, real estate, stock market.... except romance. I can travel to the countries that I have never been. I live in Southern California and plenty of good men lives within 50 miles. They all have to at least have bachelor degree, master degree or PhD, MD, JD (attorney), CEO, DDS (orthodontist), CPA, MBA, .... to date with. They are atheists, smart, .... As long as don't ask my ex, I am very happy to meet those guys. They were born in USA, so their English have no accent, speak very well. For the first 5 to 6 years, I have date almost every week. I Google their names before I went out to meet them. They are honest persons. From 2004 to 2009, I met 75 guys. However, since 2009 U.S. financial crisis, I got less dates. Maybe because I am getting older. I met that banker CEO/ Chairman since June 2006 who is the longest and I really appreciate his advice on real estate timing and how to make money. He said he likes to help smart person, he wants to help those help themselves (God helps those who help themselves). I know his life story too. I am very lucky to know him. He was on Yahoo Personals for only 3 months and never again. The Caucasian orthodontist (on AFF) taught me how to punish my (general practice) dentist ex-husband by report my ex to the dental board step-by-step. My ex (a Taiwanese) got his "Green Card", U.S. citizenship from me. That's why I dated Caucasians who was born in USA, speak excellent English. I learnt how to identify scammers. Asian men are weak, they have been spoiled by their mom, their sisters and wives. I decided not to date Asian men. My ex is the worst who doesn't want to make money, doesn't want to pay household expenses, doesn't do any housework (cooking, dish-washing, vacuum, laundry, ...) The only thing he likes is coach potato to watch TV. He said TV is the cheapest way to learn English, current news, entertainment, ball games, TV magazine, night shows, .... He is a night owl, he sleeps in the morning till noon time and wake up and sit on the toilet for an hour and go to the dental office to read Chinese newspaper till six pm and came home to eat the dinner I cooked. That marriage for 17 and 1/2 years. When my daughter was 16, I show her her father's annual income $1,000 a year, $1,500 a year. My daughter said "Daddy is a loser, if I go to work for McDonald, I can make more money than that". I knew both my kids understood their father. I walked in to a divorce attorney's office and filed divorce in May of 2004. I don't want to talk about my ex because it makes me very angry that i married a wrong person. My daughter is like me, she is very independent, smart. She is a OBGYN doctor. My son is like his father, lazy. My son lives with me. One time, I asked him to do the dishes. He said "how much you gonna pay me?" I called the police and police came and kicked my son out. I let him drive away the car I bought. My son wasted 10 years, not to college, not finding job for 10 years. I kicked him out for 4 months. He lived with his father for 4 months. When my mom died, I called him back for the funeral in 2013 and told him to stay home. From that on, he knows he needs to do dishes. I want my son to know police can kick out any child over 18. My son is 28 now. In my profile, I said I am very independent and dependable. I used the police to teach my son a lesson that he is an adult. Don't take advantage of mom to give him free meal, free house, free car, free of everything. The same reason that I filed divorce of their father. A dentist makes $2 a year. How can my ex get my million dollar house? It will make him worse. Honesty is the best policy.
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That's really bad. if you were decisive 14years ago, maybe you wouldn't have to suffer for 14 years. Is he your children's father? maybe you can negotiate and let him take less of the property. I want to punish my ex-husband. We don't live together since June 1, 2004. Prior to divorce him, he slept on sofa for 7 years, both children understand why I wanted a divorce. They know how their father is, a beggar asked mom for money, depended on women for money. I hate him. I don't want to sell house to give him half that's why it has been more than 14 years. He didn't pay any money for my properties, so he doesn't dare to force me to sell houses. My ex is 2 years older than me. Honesty is the best policy.
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9/24/2018 5:44 am |
That's really bad. if you were decisive 14years ago, maybe you wouldn't have to suffer for 14 years. Is he your children's father? maybe you can negotiate and let him take less of the property.
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it's time to put it down Stay away from anything that will make you suffer for a long time. Honesty is the best policy.
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9/22/2018 3:50 am |
it's time to put it down Stay away from anything that will make you suffer for a long time.
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I have been holding a glass of water since June 1, 2004 (14 years and near 4 months). It is too heavy. Honesty is the best policy.
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