1ClassyLady 68F
3121 posts
7/11/2019 5:08 pm
Be aware this gold member with yellow highlighter

I have received so many scammers' emails, of course, I blocked them. Why I want to show you this guy's email on my blog to remind female bloggers how to detect scammers and not to contact them. If you have received his email, please block him. I tried to delete him from email, blog, view, .... but something wrong with Chinese FriendFinder computer system, I couldn't block him from everything. Believe me, I have tried at least 5 times, and I know how to block from contact me again.

I am a MD's mother (my is an OBGYN doctor). I have dated 5 MD and one orthodontist. I know the stress and long journey of a MD that can make a doctor ignored their appearance. Please refer to his primary photo on AFF. His username is "bryan4life", 52 Male. His look lack of maturity of a MD should be and his email is too childish. He didn't read my profile carefully that I mentioned many of my trips, my music favorites, most of all, he didn't see my first name that enlarged 5 times larger in my profile. The only purpose of his email is to provide his email address, wechat ID, so that I will contact him outside. I ain't gonna fall into his trap.

This is the typical scammer's email and sent to hundreds of females and wait for that one or two st*pid females to fall into pitfall. Once you contact him, you will expose your email address or wechat ID, or phone #s. Don't be so naive that you have been contacted by a MD. They used someone else photo, or copied down a profile, sent same email to many females. They don't read blogs, use poor English in grammar and structure. MD's are highly educated, they don't write such an idiot email.

hello, nice profile, like to say hi, how are you doing? is nice meeting you here you look so cute and charming, i'm a medical doctor originally from United states, i'm new on this site and i won't be always online here due to the nature of my job, kindly add me on hangout as coxhudson xxxx (not allow to show his email address) or coxhudson on we chat so we can talk more better, looking forward to hear from you soon, thanks.
7/2/2019 2:45 am





Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
9/11/2019 12:21 pm

This member is no longer existing. He is a scammer and has been deleted.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
7/23/2019 11:26 pm

Correction: I am 60+ years old. He shouldn't praise me "cute" and "charming". He wrote the email (or copied an email) to public women in general who like to hear "cute and charming". I am 60+, I am not in teenage or early 20, I am NOT qualify for cute and charming. He didn't write email for an "individual".

Sorry, I should proofread my typos before sent it out.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
7/11/2019 6:49 pm

Correction: Ask them WHERE they work.... typo were they work...

I should proofread before hit that Post button.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
7/11/2019 6:44 pm

In my profile, I have specifically indicated the age range I prefer for males whose age either same age and 10 years older (age in 63 to 73), living within 50 miles.

This guy is 52, he is NOT qualified. The photo is more like a playboy than a MD. It is not what he said he is a MD. No, he is not. Although I can't read his profile (I'm not a paid member), I still have my common sense from his lousy email.

I have read many Asian females posted blogs that they have been scammed because they believed those scammers and contacted them outside. I have replied to the blogger "NEVER, NEVER and NEVER wire money to the man emailed you said he is in a trouble and need your financial help". Those are BS. Don't believe them. If you don't know how to block them, at least you have to ignore them. It is not necessary to reply every email you received.

I am a Taiwan and California licensed pharmacist and my training is to be very cautious. I asked the person's real name and Google them. Their profile have to be very good in English structure and grammar. Ask them were they work and go to their working place and check him out. I learned from a MD, I told him that I worked at Kaiser hospital pharmacy in XXX city. That MD really went to the pharmacy to check me out. He made sure I am really a California licensed pharmacist and worked at Kaiser hospital pharmacy. When I emailed with my banker CEO/ Chairman, I Googled him, where his bank's 4 locations are. Before I met him, I went to his HQ and sat in the bank lobby. MD and DDS, JD, CPA, ... they have their clinic offices and waiting room area. It is a public place. Check them out.

When you meet a man after you have verified, you chose a "public place" to meet him. "Better safe than sorry". I always dress-up properly and put on make-up. I want to give him a good first impression.

Girls, please be vigilant, be careful on dating. This is my advice. Trust your intuition and have a safe dating experience.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
7/11/2019 6:10 pm

There are so many grammar mistakes in his email.
hello should be "Hello"
like to say hi should be "I like to say Hi"
how are you doing? should be How are you doing?
is nice meeting you here should be It is nice to meet you here
you look so cute - this should be another sentence You look so cute and charming.
Wait a minute, I am 60+ years old. He should praise me "cute"
i'm a medical doctor originally from United State should be I'm a medical doctor originally from the United States. Well, he put location in Los Angeles, everyone knows Los Angeles is in the United States
on we chat so we can talk more better, looking forward to hear from you soon, thanks. should be so we can talk much better. Looking forward to hearing from you soon. Thanks.
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So many mistakes.



Honesty is the best policy.