1ClassyLady 68F
3112 posts
12/25/2020 10:03 am
Torn Between Two CEO's


There are times when a woman has say what's on her mind.

And all the things I ever said, I swear they still are true.
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The first CEO I have met in June 2006 is a banker President/ CEO/ Chairman. He is very busy, energetic, and people friendly. He was born and raised in USA, a Caucasian. He is a leader, an entrepreneur, financial knowledgeable. I admit that I like him more than he likes me, but he cares about me. He replied every email I wrote, returned all the calls I left in his voicemail and messages. I have sent him an email "Unilateral Love", he knows my affection but he wants only platonic friendship. It has been 14.5 years. He is always gave good advises in financial decision. I trust him and so he does. He is like my "Big Brother" who I have never had (I'm an Only Ch*ld). He is humorous and trustworthy. I appreciate for all his good financial advises. He talks politics, religion, current affairs, U.S. presidential election, R/E and stock markets, everything except romance. He understands I am anti-Communist and all the CCP atrocities 2 its Chinese people in China. One early morning at 8 o'clock he called my home phone (he knows I wake up 6 o'clock every morning for stock market and my cellular is off), I answered his call "Hello, who is this?" He said humorously "I'm calling from Communist Recruiter center, ..." I immediately apologized "I am sorry, I didn't recognize your voice". He loves traveling too. Sometimes, he emailed me when he was in China, in Australia, or in Spain on vacations. I always let him know in advance that where I will travel to.
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In October 2020, a CEO of an Insurance company emailed me from Match. I was not a subscriber at the time to read his email and wink. But Match reminded who emailed . So, I subscribed for 3 months in order 2 read his profile and messages. I have checked him out for what he has told me. Yes, he is really a CEO of an Insurance company. He was born and raised Caucasian American. He has lived 3 continents (USA, Europe and Asia). He is a polyglot, can read, speak and write English, French, Spanish, Mandarin Chinese (write traditional Chinese character) and Japanese. He is very smart and sweet. He has been to Taiwan many times, so he knows the differences of people between Taiwan strait. He has typical American's humor. He can write and speak Mandarin Chinese with traditional writing characters makes me impressed with him. I feel the Romantic Love Affair with him.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
12/27/2020 11:10 am

The Insurance CEO contacted me because the 2nd paragraph in my profile that I like to travel. For his privacy concern, I won't post his photo or which insurance company. He has talent in multiple languages skill, a polyglot, a multilingual. He traveled a lot. So, I have something in common with him. The most surprise is he can speak and write traditional Chinese character words and has been to Taiwan many times.

He is 3 years older than me, a very busy CEO. I like his profile on Match.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
12/26/2020 9:53 am

The banker never possess me and never will. I am lucky to know him as a friend, an advisor, not because his wealth. He told me his income decided by the board of directors. He is a responsible person for all his employees.

My ex-husband is no comparison to this banker. My ex has never attended a dental university in USA. He was graduated in Taiwan and passed the dentist exam to become a dentist. But he went to the mandatory military draft for 2 yrs and 1 yr GRE class. He came to USA in January 1981 on student visa to live with his sister's family. He never made a penny for 6 yrs in USA because he didn't have a "Green Card", nor social security #. So, he had never had worked as a dentist for 9 yrs.

When he knew I am an American citizen, a Calif licensed pharmacist in late 1986. He keeled down to propose me to marry him so that he could have his "Green Card" and staying in USA. He couldn't get along with his married sister after six yrs clinging with her. It was a mistake I took him into my world. I married a wrong person.

He had no m*ney, no job. I married him and gave him the Green Card and Social Security #, helped him to pass Calif dentist exam. I did everything I could to support him. I paid all the bill, bought everything, from a rice cooker, refrigerator, a dinning set, a laundry machine, to a car, a house, a dental office. He promised to share his income but he didn't. He is a very lazy slacker, no energy. He didn't pay anything. I have two children with him. Look, my daughter turns to be an OB/GYN MD. My son is computer software. I did all the housework, pa*d all the expenses for whole family. My ex has no confidence for a dentist job because lack of experience for 9 yrs. I struggled in a bad marriage. I tried to lift up him, but he is a failure. He became a burden, a baggage to me. When his income became a negative of $5,000 in 2002. I decided to file a divorce. My daughter is a smart child and she is eyewitness of everything happened in the family. She was 16, my son was 14, I decided to file a divorce in 2004. I threw my ex out of my house and he moved out on June 1st of 2004. It has been 16 and a half yrs.

I know who I want, what I want. I joined Asia Friendfinder in Sept 2004 started my search for a man in a million journey. I have a profile on many different sites. I have met many good guys. I met the banker in June 2006, only less than 2 yrs after I posted my profile on internet.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
12/26/2020 8:37 am

The banker friend contacted me because the first paragraph in my profile - my career as a pharmacist. He is 7 yrs and 2.5 months older than me. He approached me said he has a friend who was sick without a health insurance and spent lots of savings and delayed of treatments and died.

The banker has two biological daughters and an adopted daughter. When he told me the story about his adopted daughter, I knew he is a very kind person. He moved his family to Calif from Washington DC for a loan officer job in 1972. His 1st daughter was born in DC and 2nd daughter was born in Calif. One day a Mexican couple told him at church that their 9th child, a daughter was 18 months old but couldn't speak a word. They have 10 children and too poor to see doctor for the 9th child. The banker said to them he was willing to take that child to see doctor. After went to see many doctors and the diagnosis is "Autism" (精神病學)自閉症 . The Mexican couple gave up the 9th child. The banker told them that he was willing to adopt her. So, he officially adopted that 9th child to be his daughter who couldn't speak a word even "Papa", or "Mommy" at 2 yrs old. That adopted daugher grew-up with his 2 biological daughters. They love the Autism daughter as their own with love. That daughter can speak English as any normal educated person. She just a little bit quiet in a crowd. I am very impressed by this story. The banker is a very kind person. He likes to help people.

At beginning to know him, I was surprised that many children came to him while we were waiting for a table at restaurant. He seems has magnetic attraction to the children. The little children came to him and told to him even they are strangers. I don't know why, but he just has that magic. That's why I always like him and mentioned about him. I trust him for his advice.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
12/25/2020 11:00 am

The banker went to China with his laptop computer in 2007 and he emailed me from a coffee shop (WiFi is not popular in 2007). He is out of USA but he remembered me. I was very impressed. He told me to sell property in late 2007 with high price. I trust him and sold a property for $435K that bought for $95K. I took the profits before the financial crisis came in late 2008.

When I went to China in May 2008, he emailed me and said the banks are not lending mortgage loans. He let me be aware of the tsunami of financial will be coming. Then many banks bankrupted from subprime mortgage loans, almost every street had "Foreclosure house for sale" in 2009, 2010 and 2011. He told me to buy rental properties in Las Vegas. So, I did, bought 5 properties in Vegas. Las Vegas is a sin city with many casinos. The casinos open 24 hrs with 3 shift employees and those employees need a place to live. That's why he recommended Las Vegas. The tenants have job, so will pay rent. I have had management companies to manage my Vegas properties. I repaired the properties, rented out while waiting for the real estate market to turn around. I sold 3 properties, now still have 2 properties in Las Vegas.

2020 is a pandemic year, so I trade stocks at home from the sold proceeds that I gain from Vegas properties.



Honesty is the best policy.