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What's in the beauty of a relationship It's such a simple premise. Its such an amazing engaging realism. It's such a delight that unfolds what hearts can desire. "the simplicity of being together, simply because you want to be so". the agenda is to share and, the goal entails doing so by ones own motivation to simply care, to share. why do we destroy it with measurement of what that care should look like and, what rituals we claim it should engage to perform. people have traveled the world and, endured many journeys of amazing feats, just to be with another, "simply because they wanted to be" - many go off to their task, which may take them miles away and, even continents afar, but, they find their way back "simply because they want to". some shape and re-shape their relationships, in every form imaginable, some make understanding in a wide variety of ways, 'just because they want to. They find ways to share what they can, when they can, "just because they want to".. They don't need to coerce one another, nor issue each other threats and ultimatums, nor do they put conditions that force a sacrifice, which does not regard the others individual life and work. they learn to find reasons to make time, when they can find time, to share time. Just because they want to. Some measure everything, until there is nothing left to measure, and they toss away a treasure of the heart, with the slashes on their measuring tool, showing them how much they have pushed away, and they measure still; until there is nothing but their own anguish left, to become their measure. many live without the openness to share, but want to secure something they cannot afford the time to be the jailer to contain it. yet, they forget to 'be open in mind, and expressive of voice, to learn to craft understanding, which supports the open avenue to share. We indulge to gain knowledge about a great many things, and then we fall foolish to turn our hearts love over to the illusion of emotion, when we know even in ourselves, the emotions are like an oceans tide, sometime its' high, and sometimes it's low, and sometimes it crashes the shores, and sometimes, it bathes it with the soft and soothing flow making smooth beaches and, beautiful sea spaces that are purely astounding. but even so, like such things, if one has the understanding of a high peak, they can stand upon it, and marvel at the crashing tides, and not loose appreciation for the oceans flow.. such height is none other than, understandings elevation. Shall we allow nature to teach us, or do we ignore the lessons it unfolds, while it shows us much and, give even the melody of the singing birds to sooth us as we indulge the blessings within the lessons. Isn't it quite amazing, rarely does a bird starve or, the animals in the forest go without finding means of nourishment. Does it not tell us that we may need to respect, much more than we expect. if so, we may learn much about, "What's in the beauty of a relationship". |
