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Love is simply - I keep hearing people talking about "true love", Love is simply Love, one may prefer one love over another, but if it's about love, it is true because it's love. therefore all love is true. and it remains true, until it become untrue and no longer about love. but when people say this "true love", it is almost as if they expect some perfect harmony, and love itself is not a continual flow of harmony, it is a blending of harmonious and inharmonious things, which means it remain being love as being what it is, by the combining of such, which make it true of itself, through finding means to meld the harmonious with the inharmonious; while still encompassing the care to share and the sharing with care, which we sum up to be, loving. beyond that, people simply have to be honest in expression, and to do so, that means they deal with the harmonious things, as well as the inharmonious things, with a sense of honesty in and of self, and they share that mutually with each other. far too often, men get caught by the look, and fall for such things, as being dictated to. some women, get men to think of her as being better than him, therefore, she is always bent on feeling like she has a right to change him. and that means, some things one will like more than other things, and some things will agitate and maybe even irritate but the over all, is to learn ways to see things, not just through ones own eyes, but via the eyes of the other.. and that means.. people must communicate. then such truths shared, keeps the doors of love open .. |
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fairy tale seeking, and the claim that an interlude of romanticism, becoming desired to be a continued uninterrupted atmosphere, does not engage to see the realism of life, nor does it regard the up and down flow of reality upon the moods, as well as the mood and situation of actually. the challenges which come and go, make the moments of interludes of romanticism seem and feel special, because it is not an ongoing scenario, thus it become moments treasured, as being interludes, in the overall of simply sharing lives within their experiences of living. Much becomes the madness of foolishness, to toss away the care to share and the sharing with care, when the mind is saturated with the want of interludes, until it can't appreciate the realism of daily living as two sharing individuals. One has to be quite foolish even of self, to think the allure of their facial charm, is a guarantee of some un-broken-sequenced fantasy of fairy land, as told in fairy tales. thus the wise in love, can see within and beyond the challenges; reason to pursue appreciation, while seeking understanding, and such ones find many reasons to expound on the expressiveness of loving as simply the ongoing engagement of sharing, inspiring the want to share more. But the minds of many, filled with expectation, chase what they expect, but forget to regard and respect, what is. such ones fade out of love, like a passing cloud.
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