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an unkept person - the odd reality of Today Be it man or woman, it is truly a dis-regard for the nature and beauty of the human body and the nature of self. Seeing women who are un-kept, with poor hygienic conduct and not taking time to properly groom herself, or make at least some effort to maintain her body mass, as well as to have a rude and abrasive personality. Is a true tragedy of every sort unto the value of personal regard. Surely, this same is felt about men, when women see men who are un-kept, with poor hygienic conduct and not taking time to properly groom himself, or make at least some effort to maintain his body mass, as well as to have a rude and abrasive personality. Is a true tragedy of every sort unto the value of personal regard. The same applies when people allow "intoxicants", to consume them and, bring disregard to the dignity in Constitution as a self maintained and self respecting person. ******************** Lately, I see so many women, who are just sloppy, they are not even with a concern for neatness, and ignore any concept of body mass management. It's quite a social disaster without parallel in a so called civil high standard of living country, such as the U.S. Women out in pajama bottoms, that look like they have been worn for a week, sack dresses, that just hang on their shoulders, or tight things, that show roll upon roll, or being too big and too fat for short skirts that look like a disaster on their body. Sadly, in the morning, there are more and more women, who show up in the store, getting coffee, that have neglected to have any concern to groom their hair, and many that seem to have minimual concern for what it represents of self to be neatly groomed, and convey an image of particulate care about their public as well as the simple self presentation. It's not as much an economic matter as it is a personal matter. Clothes need not be designer expensive nor have status labels, they can be simply clean and laundered to show the concern to be self respecting. they need not be flashy, nor opulent, but simply well chosen for a respectful fit to the body. What's with the wave of masculine looking females today ??? Baseball hats won't hide the ungroomed image of un-cared for hair or the fact of being naturally a female, nor will looking as much like a female version of a man, hide the fact that one has ignored the natural nature of femininity. Nor will the result to be simply fighting the natural presence of being female, change one from being female. Such an oddity of reality is the modern day image in the public person, but it speaks volumes of the private individual. Even movies and commercials, show people in bedroom passion scenes, and they simply "get up put their clothes on and leave", but it never shows they had a concern to take a shower |
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the women who dress masculine, are not generally unkept, it's probably a life style statement, but what I was referring to mostly are the ones who dress like 'gang member".. Not the one who dress with a general tomboy style. I probably should have phrased it differntly, to emphasis the "gangland style". I'm sure it has some to do with location(s). the thing that I think I dislike more than anything is the "un-kept presentations, even among some very young girls/women, it seems as if they want to look beyond casual, until it simply become un-kept. example: flannel pajama bottoms, when they get those little cotton balls or beaded cotton as if they have been worn too many times. and the spaghetti strap body hugging tops, where the bra strap is bigger than the strap on the outer garment. or the sweat pants, that look like they've been worn three days too long, and etc.. Neatness does matter ... and looking clean is very important. In the climate of today, where people spread more STD's than ever before, and STD are more deadly than ever before, it would seem people would first and foremost want to be clean and neat.
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