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In this day and age.. It's interesting even in this day and age, where people mix and mate and breed their young in every ethnic combination imaginable. yet, there are still women, who stay single because they don't feel free to marry the ethnic person they want to be with, because their family expects them to marry within their own ethnicity. This same is true for a variety of men across the world. I remember some years back a guy from India, liked a blond Caucasian woman, and they wanted to be together, but his family had a pre-arranged wife for him waiting in India. I've dated women,in earlier years whom had those kind of pressures,and there are probably many within these web sites, who can't find a way to tell their parents, they want to be with someone of a different ethnicity. and some of them simply stay single, to avoid facing the situation of family expectations. It may be some years before the world as a whole change fully in these ways, and in some circles it may never change. There are many men,and woman, from very wealthy families, who can play with any ethnic woman during college days, and some woman can secretly play with any ethnic man short of marriage, but when college or playing is over, his/her parents expect him/her to follow their tradition of same ethnicity marriages. The world and people makes for interesting ways in which people avoid to face many things, and some may even live in denial of love, to avoid dealing within such choices... 21st Century and people are still not free to simply live as they desire... what a strange thing, in a world of many things. |
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It's to me a bit odd, because, I grew up with a concept that, no matter whom I choose to be with, my family is fine with it,their response to choices is: "everyone is of Gods creation" "I'm the one who has to live and sleep with them", so I should make a choice that suits me and my wants.
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