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"Trust" It's such interesting thing(s), which functions on so many levels, but in the full of what it is, it is so simple, yet some can make it complex, until they make themselves terrified of simply understanding "Trust'.. Sometimes it flows freely, sometime it is filled with apprehensions, both from the side of one who may be insecure, or the other side which may be insecure. It may well be shallow if one or the others is filled with apprehensions, and it may well be that the actual apprehensions may have nothing to do with the person one desires, it may well be simply apprehension born of past experiences one may not have resolved within self. Some people have a very high fence around themselves, for one or more reasons within themselves. Some may have scales they measure every act and every actions, and some even measure every phrase and word uttered. some may not even trust themselves, in one way or the other, Some may not care about trust, they just deal with what comes as it comes, as they may only invest for only enough to get what they want, and not be much concerned about the details of what the other wants. some may lie seeking to gain trust, and some may be raw with truth seeking to gain trust.. But one thing remains a fact, two people cannot build trust without communicating. there are many ways of communicating, but one equally so, has to be of trust to know there are many ways of communicating, then they may build trust within their communications. Trust probably has very little to do with whats between your legs, but more to do with what between your ears. "Trust" .... If you have none, you may well be less inclined to be obsessed about getting some. If you don't give trust, you should not expect to get it. If you want trust, then you have to become trusting. its always a very simple premise in such regards. So before you claim whom you can't trust someone, you first must know what is within yourself you trust. if you have nothing to hide, you may well find it easier to be trusting, but if you have much to hide, you may well have a hard time trusting, even yourself. so.. when people rush out to pursue the desire to "fall in love", they may well pause a minute and learn, how to "grow in loving". Those who seek to fall in love, probably are living a conflict within themselves, because their whole life is built around not falling. Yet they want to go against that, and claim to fall in love. When it comes to everything else, people want to "grow to learn", therefore they "grow to love". This just might be of help to those who want to "think", and it may be of help to those who make 'finding love' in their life a difficulty. Such ones may find they are the only thing standing in their own way of 'growing to love", They may simply then learn to catch each other as they fall... with the passions of loving. "Trust"... one might care to understand "trust", far and beyond just uttering the word... and tying it in a knot, around their expectations. They may well find, for everything they claim to expect, they may learn they first have to give 'respect", and less expect. Love may then be seen, by those who have been blind in knowing how to look, "trust", may teach them much, that they might see it. |
