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"Guess what" ? it might surprise you, but that girl you met, who may have you smiling from ear to ear, the one who is well beyond being a , and past being a teenage.. she can take care of herself, or she would not be where ever it is that you met her  You just might fare better, to not come along trying to be the savior nor the merchants helper bearing gifts. Its probably not likely that she will go hungry today, and she probably has never had a problem finding some place to sleep and provide shelter for herself. If you meet her and she has an apartment or a house, you can probably figure that she makes her rent or mortgage payments, or she would not be there, and she probably has her electricity working, along with her water and a telephone, either land line or cell phone. she probably shops and buy not just food but clothes and other things she wants and needs.. So why would you assume you have to suddenly act responsible for her, just to share time with her ? or why would you let her assume that suddenly you are going to be responsible for these things, or for her to even expect you to be responsible for these things ? In such situations, is it not logical that two people get together to "share", and not for one to assume responsibly for the other. No problem give her what ever you want to give her, but don't assume if she really wanted it, that she would not find a way to get it for herself. Now if she was chasing other girls, she would continue taking care of her own things, why would you think if she is looking for a man, that she would suddenly be less capable of taking care of her own things. It's a funny world, and people make it hilarious in the games people play. Remember one thing, two self responsible individuals, can make a responsible relationship... share responsibility with each other. Build relationship that work? and one may find themselves within working relationship.. |
