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FINDING Relationships Look for many things, but above all things look for the honesty of person. The world can and will be a better place when men and women choose each other based on simply a core level of honesty of person. coupled with the natural desire which drive people to find the initial attractions unto each other. Not material standing, or title or degree or such fictitious things. but something within the natural character of one unto the other is an attracting force. Pretty is always a delight to look upon, and we will find often times it is a lead in to what attracts. But always look beyond the image and see the character, pay attention to the openness to communicate. If one is too guarded and far too secretive, then one might just as well be prepared for the unexpected. which may come in the form of major disruptions to your want for peace and harmony. Beauty is many things to many people, some find it on a glance, and some find it through shared interchanges. you choose which works best for you. but what ever works for you- 'the honesty of person' will always become a premier factor in what a relationship becomes or does not become. Look around your world, watch the media and learn, then one may well see that looks guarantee nothing, but the image one see, it is no guarantee of honestly, nor of truthfulness about any aspect of life, it is simply the way one looks. If communicating is strained and like pulling teeth, then this is not a situation that will make a good relationships of open communication. Honest people have little to hide and less to be ashamed of, truthful people can and will eloborate upon subject matter, and be less eager to engage in a manipulative quest. Watch what is before and after a smile, and one may then learn better the depth and extent of the smile, as well as how the actions match with the words being spoken. If one puts many bargains around sex, it may indicate that the relationships will not be without a series of such bargains to ultimately dominate the relationships and turn it into a bargain and barter situations. If one is expecting more than they have to give, one probably should be alert to this cycle, long before they get caught up in a situation of being used, and ultimately abused. If the man or woman, acts and come across as if they think they are better than the other, then there is imbalance and it may become more imbalanced rather than less imbalanced. It's no longer a situation to be blinded by allure, but pay attention to what is true.. it may mean making less excuses, and holding each other accountable to the point and fact of honesty.. for honest people it will be simple, but for those who have issue or challenges with honesty... much should become evident before ones gets lost in a situation which may well become a detriment to their well being. This site is a good example of what is within life, as the levels of 'temperamental character presentations, is very overt in this site and mirrors what is within the physical world of face to face meeting. People can and will turn on and off and sometimes with the swiftness of a light switch, some have more depth to go beyond surface and, some do not choose such. making relations is, .... the work people put into it |
