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What is your Challenge ? Some are here just to write and some to read.. some for various other reasons. If you are here looking for a mate, what do you find is the biggest challenge? What is the deterrents ? Do you think the options are more than fancy of the moment ? Do you think people are generally honest in seeking someone ? Do you think people use it more as a testing ground? Do you think 1.(some) | 2. (many) | 3. (most) are here just to get 1. ( ego elated) 2. ( money) 3. ( sex) 4. ( free ride on someone else dime) 5. ( to find a relationship they will invest themselves in ) When or if you are less than truthful, are you lying to 1. (Yourself) 2. (Others) Do you trust the sincerity of people in general in this web site ( yes) | (no) | (maybe) Has your experiences been ( good) | ( bad) | (Indifferent) | ( mixed) . Do you think people say 1. ( what is honest ) 2. ( Politically correct) 3 ( what will make them look desirable) 4. ( what is commonly expected) 5. ( what is patronizing) 6. ( what is real in the everyday world of relationships) 7. ( what is fantasy) 8. ( what is idealistic) Do you believe in 1. (Growing in love) 2. ( falling in love) What is your priority 1. ( love) 2. ( money) 3. (Sex) ( choose one or all three, if you choose all three put them in the order of priority) How well do you really know yourself 1. ( very well) 2. ( good) 3. ( unsure of self) Facing the challenges can always bring one to see clearly if they are standing in their own way and blaming others, or if they are living and make choices to join with others. First is identifying challenges. |
