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How do you enage this magazine and or blogs? Do you care more about "the subject" being discussed ? or Do you concern yourself more with "who posted the subject" or comments ? When you encounter people, do you concern yourself more about what they have a material holdings? When you encounter people, do you concern yourself more about what they have to share in life expressions and living experiences and how they show concern for others? Do you engage blogs and magazine items to share thoughts, or do you engage it based on the personalities you like and avoid questions based on who wrote them? These type of questions may be written to relate to the blogging script, but how much do you transfer these same type of attitudes in your relationships and your daily interactions, Knowing this, may tell you more about yourself, than one may realize. It may make you aware or expose, the realize that many people are not as friendly as they claim, nor or they as unbiased as they claim, it may well expose that some are contempt holders, grudge builders, and reenters and or haters, beyond what they themselves have recognized. Our choice to act tells much, and our choice not to act equally tells much. but what is always exposed is the reality, even as one may choose to claim denial or acceptance of this or that. Of these various attitudes - many of such, I've seen displayed in this website. I've known women who have visited this site, who were attacked by other women, because they resented that men responded to a particular woman, maybe she was pretty to look at, or humorously expressive, or indulged in subject matter freely. I've talked to women, who have been confronted by men of their own ethnic group, with contempt because the woman talked to foreigners in this site, I've talked to women, who have been attacked with contempt because they resent the woman for talking to men of other ethnic make up and foreign nationalities. I've seen people develop contempt at subject matter they have inhibitions about discussing, as well as people who develop contempt because they love brevity and others do not. I've seen people who post thing, as if they make statements cast in stone, and resent others to expound upon it, and explore the connections to other things within responses. I've seen people who develop contempt because what they say does not garner patronizing commentary. Some come to the site for popularity and some come and resent anyone they think has gained popularity via interactions. some come to simply engage life discussions about many things. Some come and think and claim which subjects are not a part of relationship realism... but time finds them to come to learn that all things in life are part of what is within the inner elements within a relationship. from politics to religions, to thoughts on money, sex, power, abuse, misuse, joy, appreciations, love and the acts of destroying love by fears of many sorts. some come in search of fantasy, some in search of creating a caste and class system of associates, based on looks, money and other things. When in life people claim they are worldly and open to the humanity of people, over time, the true bias will show, as well as the prejudices will come forth, some may call it reasons, and some may call it excuses, but the ways of people engage such things, and label it for their claim of innocence. but what may be lacking in some aspects, is the full spectrum of Understanding(s), Unfortunately in life, but fortunate for Understanding, for is not a sole lover of brevity, but an equal lover of the details which are part of the complexity which supports claims of simplicity. For many are prejudge-rs of many, and engage and off and on disposition. one minute they claim to share understanding, and the next minute, they are quick to attack a label, and want to cast one into a mental box of judgments making. How do you engage this magazine and or blogs? Some won't respond to this question in the openness of this script, but may well do so in their privacy of their mind. What may be gained most, is not just about whether of your you write your thoughts, but you face your thoughts within yourself. It just might be discovered, that; the truths one face may well set one free within themselves. |
