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choosing at what point do people actually decide to choose what they claim to have chosen ? how deep is the commitment to the selection which people first claim to be their choice. today, people change mates like they change shoes, once they walk in it, they soon forgot all the passions that made them choose it in the first place, and they are out shopping again before you know it. If a man is choosing a woman, maybe he might want to pay attention to how flirty and what is her stability level, and when a woman is choosing a man, she might want to find out if he is once who actually cares about the whole of her, or if its just a catch game based on the look, but he does not really like the person behind the look. Time exposes both and all.... even if one lies to themselves and to others, the truth will eventually reveal more than many plan show. It might be good to consider ones own integrity before they claim something or someone as their choice. If you are in perpetual testing mode, then be honest about it, and bounce and bang without creating delusions to try to hide that desire. Again, the truth and time will make it all become revealed anyway. |
