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Types We all have various types we like, when it comes to people. but do we really understand what makes up those 'types'.. Beyond all the facial looks, and the body shapes, it will always come down to the 'character of the individual'. many people may chase a face, or become engulfed with the shape of a body, but that wears thin quickly, because the character is what dominates in the full scope of things. If one cares to be beautiful as an individual, they may well care to put in the work which goes far beyond the face and far behind the shape of the butt. It's an unfortunate reality, that behind many of the faces are many things which become great detractors within how individuals are interpreted and regarded. There are so many pretty faces, but so too is there many shallow character presentations. many become self deluded by the concept of their own face, some become delusions because people play the yes game to people with a pretty face, until they find the character behind the face is not with the substance to support any stability in associations. We see so many who have flighty associations, which are far too often hinged on who patronizes and who says yes to everything, but when there is a difference of concept or the reality of sincerity comes into play... if one has built their concept thinking that because people have the initial attraction to them, they may loose out on the opportunity to build actually character based associations. Good character is something one develops and it is and will always be connected to sincerity within associations, as well as regard for others. One many learn not to expect, but to learn better to respect, one has to truly think deeply, to learn to grow beyond being selfish, self centered and selfishly abusive in relations with others. Being desired is not to be abused, nor to be taken for granted, nor to inflate ones ego, it is simply to be appreciated. This often times is a great challenge for some. Vanity become their own defeat mechanism, but again, many never come to realization of such until they find themselves, faced with the fact time makes much change, or they are met with a situations where someones else is showing desire for the one they dogged out, and they can't get them back. Many can't and don't find the ways to be happy with their life, because they delude themselves to think it always has to be something it has not yet become. But time, being what it is, will always come back to the point of character, and when and if one does not respect the value of character, they may well not only abuse and mis-use others, they eventually will do the same unto themselves. |
