beyondfantasy3 113M
2013 posts
7/28/2011 5:06 am
choice and chance

do you think you make a choice, or you are faced with chance - when you see someone you like?

"getting real"
would you make a move to connect
would you play a coy game of pretending not interested
do you defeat yourself with games when you meet someone
do you try to bargain in your meeting engagements
do you think you should be bought by some means
do you think you have to buy favor by some means
are you really honest with yourself, or just wishful thinking?
do you lie for no reasons
are you really selfishish...
do you understand when you are being selfish


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
7/30/2011 4:38 pm

'FACT" !!!! rock that boat while its surfing the tides...


SugiDancer 63F
127 posts
7/31/2011 4:15 pm

I've heard over and over again from relationship experts, that it's not cool for a woman to ask a man out. I've done it many times since I like to be in somewhat control. Once in a while, I get surprised responses from middle aged guys. Younger guys under 35 have told me they fill it's a compliment that a woman would take the effort since it's a written rule for women not to make the first move. Other times, I've waited for the guys on these Online site to make the first Flirt. So I'm stil waiting to connect with a lot of these local guys and also still waiting for them to respond to emails I've sent to them first!

Sugi Dancer, Dating Coach


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
8/2/2011 4:22 pm

by some means it will let me post to previous post, but I cannot log in as Touch, but it does show me logged in as beyondfantasy...

I guess the old one ran out of space... I have over 300 page


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
8/2/2011 4:36 pm

between post and comments and magazine writings, it was well over 10,000 writing there..

I don't trust the internet as a storage system, the ways they wiped that out is evident the owners of the server can make anyone's information, inaccessible for them to continue doing certain things with. I can view that blog, and even comment on post which exist on the blog, but I cannot add post under that handle.

I feel bad for the people who believe in this "cloud"... I don't think some people realize that its nothing more than servers, which someone has CONTROL over.. Nothing better than having one's own back up drive, and then a drive to back up the back up drive.

Its best a person always keep a copy of a desktop operating system on their computer for their backed up data, because online services, may change their process and scrip at any time...

Maybe 20 years from now someone will stumble upon that blog, and realize there are some good points and factors within that blog...