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current day distortion within - natural design As long as the current day society, give so much power to the female to choose if a relationship exist, has been the greatest down fall to the nature of relationships. ( this does not mean a woman should stay in an abusive relationship, nor be forced into an unwanted relationship)... It means, men need to awaken and not fall over-himself trying to entice nor convince a woman to be with him. Why give her such a power which many generally will abuse and mis-use and it will open the door for manipulations to become with a wide spectrum of manipulative manifestations. It will generally result into a level of arrogance within the situation, and manipulations will be at a far higher potential to exist. A man must learn, that he must let a woman come to him, it is not for him go into a fit of chasing her. The delusion of the media,and the melodrama of play-writers pushing fantasy, and trying to make it appear as gospel of relationship, has lead to a consumption with the pomp and pageantry, resulting in the game playing depicted process of woman, being the chooser. It has sent the whole concept of relationship into the worst downward spiral the world has every known. everything about many relationship has resulted to be external, based on image and money, and the image of having money, and acquiring material things. even in some situations, now are treated as novelty acquisition where one can flaunt material status by how they adorn the in material status imagery. Vanity and material madness has destroyed the value point of human regard in relationships. people forget the parables of many historical things. It was the temptation of Eve, who then first lead Adam to take the bite that brought their mutual demise. By premise, it implies, man must not be led by woman, Such relationship will rarely survive with positive growth. That does not mean, man should not confer with women, but he must not be lead by woman. When men, learn this, not only will the women who are with manipulative motives stay away, those who engage and enjoy devise, will avoid this nature of man, and thus what is left for this man, is the women, who can and do respect the nature of relationship of man and woman, and she will come to the man, who stands as a man. Man must not only know this fact, he must trust this premise of fact. Lest he find his own demise by ignoring this fact. There probably is a definite reason why multiple wives existed in the earliest time, in many of the ancient civilizations, to insure no one woman, dominates a man and manipulate his life, as women are better at keeping other women in a respectful manner of function, by exposing each other, when one or the other, engages to be manipulative. 'share you thoughts on the matter" |
