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Making Relationships today, it's made into such a madness of many sorts. commercialism of relationships, has made people crazy  so much is controlled by fashion industry advertisement gimmicks, from the look of a car, to the name logo on a dress or the label inside of a suit. How many dollars one can claim; to what community one lives. such an oddity of mankind's creation... yet, in principle, a relationships still is simply 'two people", and in the natural structure of gender design compliment, male and female, making a couple, which by natural process has the design to bring forth an off-springs, just by connecting their bodies and sharing the actions of communication. Today, some get lost in being pretty, and some get lost in how much money they have and some get lost in both. The power of wanting to be of allure and chasing the trapping of allure, has people unaware of how to find even themselves. So, the circle become filled with many illusions... and relationship become more distant in the current days systems. |
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8/18/2011 8:09 am |
You are a smart and intelligent lady and you have quite a wisdom for your age. if you want, you can go to my blog and read about this topic covers with some important concerns of superficialism. Anyone can falls into traps.
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999princess, you understand what matters most. the greatest thing is two people simply appreciating the humanity of each other, and enjoying the things they can shared as two individuals. If both are willing to give into what makes a relationship, what supports a home as well as what they each want to support each other in achieving, then they will find the joys of honest relating. It's such a sad reality today, because so much potential love is lost, in the measurement of money barter games, and the people who become more in love with their own looks, until they can't bear to part with focus on self, to find enough of self to share with anyone else. Unfortunately, this over consumption with self, drives so many to be filled with nothing but expect, and they have no respect for anyone, if they don't fork over what is expected. today, many men are not really interested in all the fanfare, they are interested in women who can and do, HONESTLY want to be with him for the sake of being with him. society and commercial madness has so many women, unaware of whom they are, because next seasons fashions simply shakes up the image they built on the previous seasons fashion. The women who find their style, and remain themselves, are the women who are not only capable, but willing to choose a mate and actually put in the effort to make it a mutual regard relationship. these women who find self in such ways, are less demanding, and more team-workers in relationships, they don't think everything is all about herself, nor does she expect to bought, and paid an allowance just to stay in the relationship. making relationships, is built by "honest appreciation" shared mutually. it requires no ritual process, nor does it come with the Seven Labors of Sampson, and certainly not with a Lady Godiva illusionary pretentious cycle. it's simply 'two people" honestly appreciating each other. but first it is individual who not only have found themselves, but are willing to be their honest self with another.
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If more women understood this, and remove themselves from the 'barter their presence", and "expect payment for their association", the world would probably be less of a greed filled environment. people may then not only re-lean how to actually love, they may find life is far more fulfilling for both. but today, the thirst for material measurement, and the obsessive barter and judge based on what payment is offered, has the whole process of relationship, turned into a self made hell, that has no happy ending. many women can't fathom changing, nor coming off the barter train, and far too often measure a guys love, by what he buys her, or how much stuff he pay for, and if he is willing to give her money and adorn her with material things. TV delusions, and marketing commercial advertisements, has made people pure crazy, and has set a tone in women's mind, that men must buy them, pay for them, and act like he is a submissive fool whose only role is to give her stuff. It's why today, men are far less willing to buy into this never ending purchase agreement, that women call a relationship... Mans concept of a relationship is far different... he cares that a woman actually is with him because she WANTS TO BE, and many woman are simply not capable of being with a man simply because they want to be. The women who understand that they are HELP MATES, are the women who have functional and long term relationships... and the men are less likely to trade her away for anything. but how do you get this point over to young women, who think they are the barter queens of the world, is itself a great challenge all across the globe, in any place where the marketing media is pushing a buy and sell imagery. Most places that have women who are not lead and mis-led by tv commercialism and movie script foolishness, are the women, men seek to be seeking out. These Asian web site, are popular among western men, because they are seeking women who did not previously have a "material groomed mentality", but today, there are more and more women from more and more Asian locations, who have become 'material minions unto changing themselves from a family minded value bases, to a material minded value base, of fake status, fake pomp and pageantry and lost in the "buy me something" madness and I'll pretend to like you, as long as you keep paying. and more and more women are loosing in the love arena, and the divorce rate is higher and higher, and each place its rises, the commercialism is very high, and has become a priority focus.... so actually "love sharing" is emotionally bankrupt.
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you are so very right.. Much of the economic madness in the world is tied to people who think wealth chasing by any means is the answer. Imagine the couples who could and would be fine if they simply both work, and contribute to the household and the things they want to do. If they manage what they buy, save together for the things they want, and invest in things which either retain value or earn value. over time they will be fine. If one becomes wealthy in monetary means, building mega homes, is in many ways pointless. there are many Mansions for sale today, and there are many couples who were happy together until they moved into a Mansion. I think some of those Mansions should be turned into Hotels, Retreats and such things. If I was going to have a big mansion, with lots of grounds, I'd want to have kids to enjoy it, because it would mean not only would I have money to manage the house, I'd have money to support the kids. There are too many homeless and abandoned kids, for people to have these excessive homes, that are childless.. such things symbolize excess vanity which has no end nor purpose other than to purport vain acclaim. We as people forgot how to truly live, because money has become more important than the life of people. Today kids kill each other over material things, husbands and wives kill each other for money, and people marry for the love of money. In doing so, they find degradation within themselves, they become one who's value of love is sold away for an illusion. We as a society even perverted education, degree was only to denote that a person engaged a course of study, it does not mean they are some royal status, nor that they are better than anyone, it only means they indulged to pursue learning. But if they are not using that learning to better the world, they are then hung up on a degree as a status item, which become more of importance in self acknowledgement, that simply being a good and honorable person. I'm personally not impressed by degree's nor the hoopla that surround them. University seem to generate a high percentage of clone mentalities, who have the common sense trained right out of them. We can see that by the systemic failure across the globe. and all the corporate failures are headed by people from these Ivy League institution, and they crash in cycles, because they are all trained to think alike and the human regard factor is the lowest on their list of priorities. I have a greater regard for the skill trained people who gain technician type of skills, who actually perform a function such as people who design mechanized things, and things which become actual functional tools in society. MBA, I think seems to train people to try and gain 1000% from a penny, and that leaves no room for human concern,nor the concern for the humanity of society. They only see profit by any means. when any things become more important than the treatment of each other as human being and respect of individuals as persons, then it has lost the meaning of live and civility in society. I don't care much for the pompous attitude of people who become doctors, and their focus is only on charging crazy rates to perform life saving surgery. How many houses does one need, how many cars does one need, and how much money does one need to live a life and still be of service in society. We have so many skilled doctors, who allow people to die, because they can't get paid 10's of thousands of dollars to perform a surgery that may only take them a matter of hours in the living of their life. The Oath that use to matter, does not matter any longer. Its all about status and dollars, and lives become secondary. as to women and sex, I am not a fan of women who have the trip where they have lost the regard to understand that sex is natural and should be shared natural within their relationships, and not used as some barter game, or trying to pretend they have no natural inclination to be of desire for man, and then act like they have apprehensions when it comes to sharing with the man they are with. Too many women, destroy their own relationships, with their mentalities about sex. Point being, don't marry if you have a trip about the creativity of sexual motivation with your mate. and don't marry if you have no self motivation to give and share with the same drive of desire, and motivation that she expect from him. Many of these young women in here, can't make relationship with anyone, because they have in the back of their mind, the developed mentality of bartering sex to the highest bidder, and they they want to pretend that love is a primary concern, but they can't love lest the highest bidder offers to pay their way in life. That, is by act and fact, nothing more than "covert prostitution" - they can lie and deny it, but the facts tell the reality in the end result. for any man, if she is not with you because she wants to be, then he should move along. the same motivation a homosexual woman shows when she is pursuing women, is representative that women are capable of the same motivation and exercised demonstration of being assertive in desire, so why can't she be the same when she is with a man? Every man should ask himself that question, when he considers a woman. And not buy into that coy BS, of women pretending to be so submissive and non self expressive. It's a game, that is old and tired. but most men don't come to that reality until he see's her in her anguish, when she tries to rip him clean in divorce court, then he realize that he has been living with a person who perpetrated a sham pretense. Today, many women talk too much, and generally it's all talk about, what she expects and what she demands, and how much contentious flap they talk when they can't successfully manipulate the situation to her sole advantage. some women have learn different, and know the value of being a help mate in a relationship, and some women have learned the value of being a self responsible person in a relationship, and some women have learned how to be a contributor without expectation of compensation for simply being a decent and communicable human being. those women are less likely to always create some type of drama based disagreement about everything when they don't get their way. some women, know how to appreciated what is given and shared, and not diminish appreciation, because she did not get everything she wanted. Some women have learned that, if she starts feeling like her needs are too great, that it means she first needs to give herself invested effort to contribute to the situation to put in effort to make things better by her efforts, rather than sitting in anguish filled with a circle of expectations. the problem with many women who are quick to convert to being homosexual, is a woman who is resentful when she has to do things herself, and then loose regard to appreciate man, simply because she had to put her own effort to do or achieve something. and their first spill is, "what do I need a man for"... That is a prime example of a woman, who never learned to simply appreciate and want a man. she does not think in terms to want him because she appreciates and respects him as a person.. rather. she is more likely driven to see him as a means to a selfish vain objective. which leads her to measures a man based on what he gives and if he does things for her, to the point where she has to do nothing but show up. the Cinderella delusion and the "I'm a do nothing princess mentality", is why so many women are so messed up in the head.. The women who are proud to be women, but in being so is equally so a self responsible person, is the women who are truly equipped mentally to share love, life and living with a man, as an individual who is capable of making relationship that work.
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IT'S SO UNFORTUNATE, BUT .... [Many} NOT ALL of the young girls don't want to hear this, 'their whole mind and life is designed around being covert prostitutes, and most of them know it but lie about it, and some don't know it,but everything they do is driven to be exactly that. many are flip lipped with sarcasm on the tip of their tongue, and they think it makes her cute. when it shows how foolish she is within her own vanity. the result is: PEOPLE DESTROY THE SAME LOVE THEY CLAIM TO WANT, BY THESE MAD CYCLES. I think is 90% of these women understood what it means in a mans life when he chooses a woman, these women would cut the crap, and get off the barter train and they may find out just how wonderful and enriching it is simply to love and be loved. But women turn in it to dumbest thing imaginable, with all their vain expectations. the average argument in any relationships, can be traced to 'women's expectations, and their inability" to accept a man saying no to some of their whimsical measurement intent pursuits. many women ask for stuff trying to test and see what she can manipulate the man to give or do for her. and the cycle is endless in some women. When the men open his eyes to this game, then he becomes where he does not want to give her anything, because he know he is going to be used and played for some game result if he does so. Many, parents turn many daughter into covert prostitutes, by telling her to chase money and titles, and if she does not chase the right title and the money, they want to treat her like shes a failure of some sort, rather than respect the person she chose to love and respect her for being capable and willing to love without it being wrapped into a prostitute agreement. when the only thing the parents should care is that the man is clean, respectful and willing, able and engaging to be a person who works. It does not matter the job, as long as it is legal. Couples should be willing to grow together, and work together. Not one looking for the other to have everything, and they just step in CHASING a free ride. Generally, men will work his butt off to make sure he can provide the best within his capability, so they can enjoy some nice things. but there are far too many young women, who have the inability to be satisfied with anything, because they always want to measure what they have against what some other woman has. women don't want to hear the truth, because they want to remain with that "I'm not responsible attitude"... It's like all these women who have affairs, and then when its exposed or comes to light, they want to clAIM they are innocent and had not thing to do with it, as if they don't have a mind that has made decisions. The judges should throw this crap out of court. and the same for all these women who pursue popular men and public figures, and then cry foul when they don't get paid what they expect. Probably one of the worst situations is, women who marry rich men, and then expect to get part of his money when they leave. If that is not the biggest cover prostitution process seeking residual compensation for every sex act, that ever took place between them. she did not earn the money, he did and she is not entitled to what she did not earn by her own efforts. If he choose to give her any, that is his option, and should not be governed by her expecting demand. If you were broke when you married him, there is nothing that says she should be rich when she leaves, 'unless she earned it"' or they has a mutual effort business and an agreement that it was a business they built together. But that does not apply to his professional career, because he is the one who goes to work and performs, not her. Now if he tells her not to work, then he may well owe her , because the inhibited her chance to earn her own money, then he should give her a portion, when she leaves. this is not the 16th century when women could not work, this is the 21st century; and women can work.... and by right they should work. If she spends her time raising the kids, then yes, give her a % of the money when she leaves, I don't think it should be 50%, but it certainly should be enough for her to live comfortable if he is independently wealthy. but all the extravagant crap of 5-10-30K for clothes a month and stuff like that, is purely absurd. When women stop looking at relationships in monetary terms, there may even become some civility within relationships, and there probably will be less divorces driven by financial arguments. In earlier times, people had large families, and they farmed, but everyone worked, therefore everyone understood financial management, as well as how to be conservative, and how to appreciate what they did acquire or what they did get. When everything tried to 'EMULATE SOAP OPERA" delusions, and movie script entertainment imagery, then it became pure crazy. Today, the natural beauty of woman is sold like a commodity. What we have today, is a bunch of "material chasing monster matches" relationships, where one might tear the others head off at any moment, all about some material want. A bunch of image stuck up idiots, who can't even talk about the natural nature of sexual function, without one or the other climbing upon some fake moral mantle. It's people, and the mentalities that is the downfall in "Making Relationships" Men, who allow himself, to become corrupt in business trying to get money to appease a situations and grandstand, men who want to down-rate himself based on measuring his income against another man, and men heading companies, that will gouge the company and lay off people and produce shabby products, to get more money to play some appeasement role trying to attract the money seeking women. It's amazing how much money and material things, control people today. too many women are quick to tell other women, what they should bargain for, and what she should chase based on how she looks.
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IT'S SO UNFORTUNATE, BUT .... [Many} NOT ALL of the young girls don't want to hear this, 'their whole mind and life is designed around being covert prostitutes, and most of them know it but lie about it, and some don't know it,but because of grooming, unfortunately how they function in some situation, and what they trip on, turns into being driven to be exactly that. Many are flip lipped with sarcasm on the tip of their tongue, and they think it makes her cute. when it shows how foolish she is within her own vanity. the result is: PEOPLE DESTROY THE SAME LOVE THEY CLAIM TO WANT, BY THESE MAD CYCLES. It's so crazy, dating, is like a cycle of madness which many woman can make it far more crazy than it has to be. it is simply an agreement to meet and communicate. Why make it into something stupid. No one asked them to get married on a date, It's a social meeting. Geez !!!! I personally rarely ask women for their phone numbers, and very rarely invite one to go do anything, because they seem too tripped out with trying to judge it to be more than it is, when its simply an agreement to share time doing something. I'll give her my number, that way, I don't have to play her games of pretending to be busy and other silly stuff. If she calls fine, if she does not fine. There's always one that does not turn a simple invitation into something insane.. The more men, realize the fact there are women who don't act like an egotistical ass when they are invited out, the less he will put up with the yo yo games some women take great delight in playing. the more men realize, he does not have to sit and act like a subservient idiot, the less he will be trying to play appeasement games of kiss butt silliness all evening. Just be nice, but be yourself, and don't let these selfish attitudes some women throw as if everything has to be all about her. You are not meeting to prove to her you can be her sucker mentality servant. You will walk away from the date with your dignity intact. both should be on their best considerate behavior, without playing patsy to one other the other. I think is 90% of these women understood what it means in a mans life when he chooses a woman, these women would cut the crap, and get off the barter train and they may find out just how wonderful and enriching it is simply to love and be loved. But women turn in it to dumbest thing imaginable, with all their vain expectations. the average argument in any relationships, can be traced to 'women's expectations, and their inability" to accept a man saying no to some of their whimsical measurement intent pursuits. many women ask for stuff trying to test and see what she can manipulate the man to give or do for her. and the cycle is endless in some women. When the men open his eyes to this game, then he becomes where he does not want to give her anything, because he know he is going to be used and played for some game result if he does so. Many, parents turn many daughter into covert prostitutes, by telling her to chase money and titles, and if she does not chase the right title and the money, they want to treat her like shes a failure of some sort, rather than respect the person she chose to love and respect her for being capable and willing to love without it being wrapped into a prostitute agreement. when the only thing the parents should care is that the man is clean, respectful and willing, able and engaging to be a person who works. It does not matter the job, as long as it is legal. Couples should be willing to grow together, and work together. Not one looking for the other to have everything, and they just step in CHASING a free ride. Generally, men will work his butt off to make sure he can provide the best within his capability, so they can enjoy some nice things. but there are far too many young women, who have the inability to be satisfied with anything, because they always want to measure what they have against what some other woman has. women don't want to hear the truth, because they want to remain with that "I'm not responsible attitude"... It's like all these women who have affairs, and then when its exposed or comes to light, they want to clAIM they are innocent and had not thing to do with it, as if they don't have a mind that has made decisions. The judges should throw this crap out of court. and the same for all these women who pursue popular men and public figures, and then cry foul when they don't get paid what they expect. Probably one of the worst situations is, women who marry rich men, and then expect to get part of his money when they leave. If that is not the biggest cover prostitution process seeking residual compensation for every sex act, that ever took place between them. she did not earn the money, he did and she is not entitled to what she did not earn by her own efforts. If he choose to give her any, that is his option, and should not be governed by her expecting demand. If you were broke when you married him, there is nothing that says she should be rich when she leaves, 'unless she earned it"' or they has a mutual effort business and an agreement that it was a business they built together. But that does not apply to his professional career, because he is the one who goes to work and performs, not her. Now if he tells her not to work, then he may well owe her , because the inhibited her chance to earn her own money, then he should give her a portion, when she leaves. this is not the 16th century when women could not work, this is the 21st century; and women can work.... and by right they should work. If she spends her time raising the kids, then yes, give her a % of the money when she leaves, I don't think it should be 50%, but it certainly should be enough for her to live comfortable if he is independently wealthy. but all the extravagant crap of 5-10-30K for clothes a month and stuff like that, is purely absurd. When women stop looking at relationships in monetary terms, there may even become some civility within relationships, and there probably will be less divorces driven by financial arguments. In earlier times, people had large families, and they farmed, but everyone worked, therefore everyone understood financial management, as well as how to be conservative, and how to appreciate what they did acquire or what they did get. When everything tried to 'EMULATE SOAP OPERA" delusions, and movie script entertainment imagery, then it became pure crazy. Today, the natural beauty of woman is sold like a commodity. What we have today, is a bunch of "material chasing monster matches" relationships, where one might tear the others head off at any moment, all about some material want. A bunch of image stuck up idiots, who can't even talk about the natural nature of sexual function, without one or the other climbing upon some fake moral mantle. It's people, and the mentalities that is the downfall in "Making Relationships" Men, who allow himself, to become corrupt in business trying to get money to appease a situations and grandstand, men who want to down-rate himself based on measuring his income against another man, and men heading companies, that will gouge the company and lay off people and produce shabby products, to get more money to play some appeasement role trying to attract the money seeking women. It's amazing how much money and material things, control people today. too many women are quick to tell other women, what they should bargain for, and what she should chase based on how she looks.
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women have to think about some of these things, because as people get older, the options change. Many may not like the reality, but as women get older, their options are far different than when they are younger. Unfortunately, there are many older women, who still push too much criteria, and attach too many conditions, and all it does it make them less likely to be the choice for the men seeking mates. I did not create that fact, it is simply a fact which exist. but if many young women learn how to pick their battles, and stop being self consumed and thinking they have to have their way, and some women have the unspoken assumption, that they are the controller and regulator of the man, and the result is they find themselves alone. Many of the women, who always lay back waiting on the man to initiate bedroom activity, find themselves equally so alone. They lack learning that it takes the same effort from her, to demonstrate her want for him, and the same motivation to be an initiator and concern herself with enjoying giving, just as much as she is focused on the man doing most of the giving when they are in bed. this is why the hooker can always take their man, or the young girl can take their man, because the hooker or the young girl is going to show him by active expression that she enjoys giving him pleasures, as much as she enjoys getting him to give her pleasure. too many women, think the whole act of romantic sex, is about the man swooning over her, and they forget, generally they are doing nothing but laying back soaking it all in, but no doing anything in return, and some do it with such a lackluster motivation, that is infuriates the man, more than it satisfies him, because he can feel the lack of sincere motivation, and how much its lacking in what she pretends to be giving. but many women are hard headed, they think their face and the shape of their butt, is a 'cure all", and when the man leaves, they want to blame it on everything but she is not willing to review herself, and the pattern of reluctance and contempt that she often has when its time for her to give him any form of stimulation. " and most women, know exactly what I'm talking about"... some lay there waiting for someone to make them see stars and rainbows with flying doves in the air", and then she wants to respond to the man as if its a chore to do anything. if it requires her to focus on stimulating him. It get's worst, when she is full of expect about some material object he did not give her, the reluctance and lackluster performance then gets even worst .... but, women should know, the same as she can feel, lackluster efforts to stimulate her, the man can feel it too... and once she gets him to the point that he does not want it, non of her tantrums will do anything to change that. and all the bickering and overt bartering will serve to do anything but make the relationship worst. If the passions dies, its as much her fault as it is his... and just getting her hair fixed or her nails painted is not going to change it. If she wants to change it, then get in the bed and act like you want to be there, and when you do stuff, do it with a natural want and desire, that generates a self motivated effort, and don't be in some hurry, because she sure does not want him to be in a hurry when she is getting hers. There is nothing worst in the bed, than a woman with a wall ten feet thick she build to prohibit herself from getting aroused, where it takes a jackhammer to wake up her, to cut the crap and to get involved. the big problem with young girls, they don't seem to know how to relax and actually appreciate anything. the more the man shows her appreciations, the more she mistakes it for some power, and then they get lost in their manipulative on and off sulking cycle. and then go into a process of 50,000 test... until the man simply gets tired of it. Then comes the barrage of the vengeful scorned women tactics, which does nothing but make things worst. Young women loose, because they are always on the look out for what they think is better, when they have not given their best in what they are doing. they fail to understand the simplicity, that is will never be any better than one puts the motivation and interest to appreciate it to make it as good as it can be, and ever situation is not going be be some whirlwind or tornado of passion, its just what it is at the time it is, .... Stop believing that crap you read in these vain driven women's magazines, those books are probably designed to make more women seek out lesbians, than it is to help them learn how to appreciate men as people and individuals. it's like the fashion and advertising medium is driven by homosexual in the promotional position, and they craft more and more advertisement to promote any image they can that can subliminally promote homosexual inclination, to increase their pool of options. but many women simply are not aware enough to discern how they are being preyed upon and set up. Look at all advertisements, it plays on the gullibility and the vanity of women, to sell anything from car tires, to toilet bowl plungers.
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I had a friend who's wife developed MS... he never wavered in his devotion to her, he had to bath her, and every person things that she use to do for herself, he had to do it... But he always spoke of her with a sincere endearment. When she passed away, it took him a while to let go, and seek another relationship.... They did everything together when they were younger, and not once even when she tried to get him to find someone to comfort him, he stayed with her. Not all people reach that level of love and devotion unto each other. Young people today, can't even stay with each other if one gets a common cold. and the minute the man loose a job, the relationship is over for many of these young status chasers... people have lost the ability to love... they seek the convenience of another resources... beyond that, they are ready to flee.
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My friend whom I visited Thailand with, always brought his wife back many clothing items he had made for her. generally, he brought her as much stuff as he brought for himself. They've been together now for more than 30 years. they vacation together, but they each vacation separately.. he is free to go do what he likes, and she is free to go do what she likes, but they make their time for each other. they have been this way for 30+ years. I don't think relationships are hard, if people simply want to be with each other.. they can and will find a way to still have their individual lives, and they find a way to work through their issues.. Issues are natural to any relationship, because it is made up of two people, who are each individuals. most people put their trust centered solely round sex, but they put their trust in the humanity of each other, which is far stronger than centered around sex.. so if either of them make a situation where they do something, they don't broadcast it to each other, nor do they put it in each others face. They already know they are not prefect, but they do know they care about each other more than they care about a one or the other having a fling. I think they figured that out early in their relationship.. EZ in the Magazine expresses this reality very well, and he never cease to state that he is not going to leave his woman, because he has a fling on the side, I know couples who have been together for many many years, the women knows the man may get some from time to time, but she also knows that he is coming home, and that he does not plan on leaving home behind a situation of a short term fling. There are many women, who do their girlfriends, but they are not going to leave their man behind it. Life is filled with many things, but what makes things work for two people, is they never cease to want to be with each other. a lot of women already know some men will get some at some time or another, and some women even expect that he will, but they know as long as he treats her good and comes home, they know he is with her because he wants to be. In some Asian countries, the women know men visit various parlors, and some may even have a mistress, and the mistress already know that the man has a wife, and the mistress is ok with it, or they would not have got into the the arrangement, and the wife knows, and she knows the man values home first. people have been doing this since the beginning of time. It's always a matter of individual, when people make relationships... and not only do they need to understand they love each other, but that they want to be with each other... the want factor is far stronger than people give it credit for being. The world has every kind of relationship one can imagine to exist. Being single is a choice, but that choice can also bring much self denial as well as it can consume a great deal of time, that is not shared...
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8/26/2011 7:02 am |
You make a very good point.
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