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choosing a woman.. if you really want a good relationship, seek out women who choose to be more intelligent than being a toy.. In the long run you will find she can teach herself how to relax and enjoy you and herself. If you want a turbulent relationship, then go and get yourself a competitive and contentious woman, and you are certain to find misery becoming your best friend and you will find the bedroom turned into nothing more than a battle ground. choose a woman, who has concern to take care of herself, and groom herself, but not one who is so absorbed in fake imagery until not only will she loose herself, but you will find over time, you don't know whom you are, nor whom she is. choose a woman who has a regard for the nature and principal of what constitutes family, and has a driving passion to value building one, even if it comprised of just the two of you. Choose a woman, who is not adverse to what is working, and you will find a woman, who has the depth to deal with life challenges, and work her way to contribute to gain life's triumphs. Choose a woman, who is not hung up about sex, and be certain she is not one who think she can control the world with sex. you will find a woman who not only knows how to appreciate and enjoy it, she will be a woman whom will know how to share it, without turning it into t 24/7 gambit game. choose one who has a value concern for being honest as a human being, and you will find you have a woman who is less involved and less driven to devise schemes. choose a woman who shows you that she wants you, not because you pay, or jump through a loop, but because she is motivated to share her self and her life without expecting to be paid by some means to do so. If you choose a slob, don't expect not to have one, if you choose a schemer, don't expect not to have one, if you choose a frigid bed mate, don't expect not to have one. If she is of concern to be neat, and live in a neat environment, you probably will have found a woman, who will work with you to maintain a neat environment. If you choose a spend-a-holic, expect her to be a spend-a-holic... but if you choose a woman who understands thrift, and is not driven and controlled by advertisement, you will find a woman, who knows how to develop and appreciate her own style, and not be lost in every fad that comes along. whether she has long hair, short hair or very little hair, if she cares to groom it, she probably cares also to insure that she is neat and well kept and will work to insure that she is so. If you choose one who thinks she is too good for you, you probably have chosen one who is more vain than is necessary to be a functional mate to you. If you choose one who chases status, she will never cease to chase status.. and likewise so when it concerns money, she will continue to chase money... In your choosing, if you choose to be a chaser, expect to be forever chasing... paying attention works great for those who understand to do so, and in doing so, can discern the nature of conduct, to know the difference between bartered kindness and genuine consideration(s). If you want a party girl, then expect her to be what she is, in being a party girl... If you choose a heavy drinker, you'll probably end up with a perpetual drunk... if you choose a drama addict, expect a new scene frequently with more drama even when their is nothing to support it... if you choose a whiner, and a pity patsy, you will get a whiner and a pity patsy.... think, pay attention and choose carefully. Choose a person who reasons and communicates and you may just find a mate... who can communicate and be of reasoning in doing so |
