beyondfantasy3 113M
2012 posts
9/26/2011 4:26 pm
As The World Spins


so, you have a pretty face... and a shapely body, or you have money and material things...

does that fulfill you as a person? are you capable of simple appreciation of others as the person they are ? Just how much do you really measure your life by material things, and review your claim of friends and see if you'd be friends with them if they looked different, or did not have certain material things.
It's a simple thing, but the only thing that matters, is: to be honest with yourself. it may help you build "genuine friendship" as simple person to person. but that choice is certainly yours.

Are you to impatient to 'grow and develop" a relationship, or do you think people should fall all over you and act smitten just because you show interest ? Is your impatience killing your ability to build relationships ? You know the truth, but you are the one who must face the truth.

Without honesty unto self, one will certainly make and create delusions and push illusions and try and paint mystery to cover up facts.

Sadly, many can't enjoy the simplicity of their intimacy with the opposite sex, because they have too many equations to material things and illusion of popularity obsessions. More of these same people get out of bed with a deflated illusion, because they failed to incorporate reality to over-ride their chase of expectations.
It's really sad, when people have turn the simplicity of natural inter-c***rse into a game of 'make a fool, be a fool, spin me a delusions and promise me an illusion. the end result is people come first not to like others until time finds them, it is themselves they never learned to like. therefore they had so much less to share, but much to expect as if they were begging for validation.

If humanity does not learn the meaning of sharing, it will continue down the path of every diversion and any perversion, and chase a illusion of fantasy and find more delusion in their lives.

Life is not the circus some seek, it is simply a world with many things, and all of it requires respect, and within learning to respect, one just might learn to appreciate.

As The World Spins - no matter what you run from and how much you spin your mind to deny, one will always be brought to the act and fact of having to face themselves. many times, people simply don't like what they come to see and fail to realize, they created what they are seeing in and of themselves.

blame it where you will, but when the quietness of silence comes and the low light of night falls and one finds they are in a moment of being alone, the truth comes to light, with a reverberation that over-rides silence, and it all takes place inside ones head...

and the self meets the self....... what might come to surface ? eventually brings many .... to learn to be of care, in how they choose to live.

aura_2000 50F
84 posts
9/29/2011 8:11 pm

different people have different fulfillment... it all depends on what matters most to them... we all have different backgrounds, different failures and struggles and our fulfillment has something to do with all these... people can be strange and weird... we're all kind of weird. from the little quirks, to the uncanny obsessions, we all do things that are, well a bit out of the ordinary. but as the world spins, we spin along, hoping to meet the person we enjoy spinning along with...

Aura


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
10/1/2011 6:05 am

yes, we are certainly a world of unique individuals. even with the levels of uniqueness, the matters of appreciating and what is the nature of concern to appreciate others is common across all levels of cultures, and becomes a part of the individuals trek.... as the world spins.