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the cycle of paradoxical situations... It does not matter what level of degree people get, nor what position in job they get, or what professional they aspire to... none of it makes much difference in the scenario of relationships because with all their claimed knowledge .. they still bicker about stuff, and one wants the other to do specific things, and they find something to get pissed off about... There are people who spend their life counseling others on relationships, but they themselves, have failed relationships... There are psychologist who claim to study the psychological function of people, and they mix their trips with the sociologist who claim to study the social systems of people.... and many of these people, have relationships that don't function. No matter what people learn, it seems the more they are taught from books and by professors who claim to teach about what's in books... people still are selfish, full of expect, and want the power of influence over others, and will destroy relationships in pursuit of such. and none of their knowledge means a thing, when they get into trying to use it to manipulate or control another. Or they want to use it as a lure to make one or the other submit to something to meet their selfishness. The best thing people can learn is to simply share, and then they may well seek to learn how to care, then they just might learn how to be better in the act of sharing what they share. There is no need for any educational system to teach this this, animals know it, and they don't give a damn about a degree, nor a profession. sadly, when it comes to love, education sometimes teach people how to be more wicked, than how to be more sharing within their loving. We see it today, there are more women with more degree, who are incapable of making a good relationship... because all they have learned is to claim.. "It's all about Me"... and that has shown that just like in the story of Adam and Eve, the tree of knowledge, is the potential to broken relationships between man and woman. It's such a funny things, because the poor couples seem to have a way of retaining the ability to appreciate much of what they do and share with each other as being people in love. they break bread together, if one gets something they can't wait to go share it with the other, and they look out for each other, with the same care they look out for themselves. Life is filled with paradoxes of every sort... including situation where Dialetheism may best paint the scenario, but are we aware enough to learn the ways of living and sharing by what we observe to become aware of.... even as we spin in the Antinomy of the male and female concepts of life and relationships, roles and expectations within those roles. |
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11/6/2011 11:33 pm |
yeah,the worst kind are the ones who think just because they have a uni degree or 2 ,makes them better than most .........i beg to differ!so enchanting she delights the soul
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