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The interesting connection between Male and Female No matter how we view it, we are designed to connect; our natural body design was made so we not only fit together, we can produce new people by the act of connecting and invigorating each other in the highest forms. Now, we may negotiate a bit different about that happening, but unless we realize, that; "without reasonable accommodation with each other", then; "nothing happens", and when nothing happens. We then, cannot become all we are capable of being, because in our connections, we each become more of whom we are within the expressiveness which encompass our engagements. We can make a gambit of it, or a bargain about it, or we can simply make interactive agreement to indulge appreciations, and in doing so, we find how much enriched we both become. We can delude ourselves to think otherwise, but life continues to bring the reality, that together; we become much more than we can be alone. None has ever produced an offspring without the vital fluids of EACH other "Male" + "Female". We may go out and claim to conquer the world, but unshared, we have no more than what we have without conquering anything. We have an unshared space with things within it. We become barren in supporting the connections which keep life producing and reproducing. It's been happening thousands upon millions of years before we because us, and yet we battle for dominion, but won't take dominion of ourselves enough to know our greatest value in within what we share with each other. Then we imagine what it can be when shared. Our biggest enemy in loving, is " we each try too hard to be the master" rather than mastering being a pair. We can pleasure ourselves, but it can never be as great as when it’s a sharing experience to indulge the activity of pleasuring each other. But we can ever screw that up, with selfish thought, assuming one is getting more pleasure than the other, or one is thinking they should be getting more, when generally that energy is burned up expecting, rather than respecting the act of sharing. We then try and measure pleasure one days acts of such against another days act of such... When fact is, the day is different and in ways we are too, but we are not aware to consider the change in our experiences and the change in our moods and how it impacts our perceptions of how we interpret pleasure. but we are too filled with pride to simply relax and appreciate the opportunity within the gift of life, to be capable and able to share... We are exception in the ways we can defeat the act of appreciation, much by fear as equally much by folly, then we seek where to lay the blame... eventually, two people part, both feeling shame, both unaware it’s their own heart they have to tame. The work required for loving we want without the labors of loves reality. We grow stressed and distressed, when we grow faint when faced with the works required to bring forth our best. We've never failed to see the birds sing after the rain, nor do the flowers fail to give off their beauty even in the blowing wind. the morning dew becomes a nourishing feeding to the budding rose, and in the sunshine its brilliance glows ever so bright... its beauty is right in the morning as it is in the late evening, equally so on the moonless night. Should we not learn much from the simple things of nature, and the complexities it lives within, simply to be unto us, an experience of joy? Water without land will spread and may soon evaporate, and a land without water, may well become eroded and harden like stone or turn to sand and blow without means to keep the wind from sweeping it into a blinding storm, or it may appear to simply vanish across the terrain. IF a woman is like the water, and a man is like the land, together they can support life. Too much water, the surface of the soil become like mud, but always its supported by the firmness of the soil's depth. Too much soil with very little water, it will become consumed in the soil and neither produce any growth nor will it have the volume to nourish and remain a beauty upon the land. It just might be wise for Male and Female to realize that without each other... life as we know it cease to exist.  Gods, design cannot be denied, and still expect there to be life with love. We just might want to learn to RESPECT IT. |
