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(Relationships) - Get busy with it We think a lot about many things, but nothing truly takes place until the thoughts move into the interactive phase. If we find out within self, the highly important factor, which is simple if we face the truths we ultimately can know. 'we'd have learned that honesty to share via appreciation... must be within our motives and intentions ... We'd then know, that any act of "gambit", is a price we sell ourselves for less than the value, we claim of ourselves, but... in sharing ourselves to intermingle as mutually respectfully human beings, we each become more of being whom we each are. Do you appreciate the actual person, or is it the material trapping, the make up and costume, the status and pageantry, or do we expect someone to suddenly transform out lives to what we expect them to create for us of 'being entertaining to feed our thirst for excitement'..? If those are the things you seek... it may well be that no only will you invoke havoc in someone else life; you will create your own cycle of disappointment and then; you will, seek to blame your dissatisfaction on someone else. If you can't see to respectfully regard the other, and engaging appreciate the character, and interactive function with another as simply person to person exchanges. then you already know that you've doomed the association from your stand point, where it may likely not develop the depth of actually knowing the person, or being known by the person. If you have a plot and ploy, crafted, designed and followed like a script, then who then is the gamer? and what fictions will the role you play entail ? it just may be you.. who is the catalysis as to why your efforts may fail. if you find the interest in another, then you may want to find the truth within yourself, and sharing will have a far better chance of being mutually inspired with interest in and of each other... If such is the case.. you just might find an enjoyable experience in your relations with others. If you have an UN-communicated objective, not only may you result to abuse another, but you just might come to learned you mus-used yourself in doing so. Point and fact is, you are always with a part within the responsibility of what results within acts of relation.... deny not, and you may grow to learn better how to make functional relating a part of your ability to share with other... BAM... surprise... !!!!! you can't hide from yourself, not can you try and hide within another, nor blame another because your cover is blow ... and the reality of you... is acknowledged. Now, just what of yourself would you like to present, in being known as whom you are? The greater challenge is always within " yourself'... the better it is faced, the better will be the acts of relation within your living experiences. |
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yes.. we can continually amazing ourselves by simply continuing to pursue improvements in our life interactions.
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