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what happen to women today is is such a disaster of a situation, many are lost in the vanity of themselves, many are caught up about the look of their face, or the shape of their butt, or the size of their breast.. but even more-so the disastrous reality is, many are controlled by what they think they can bargain and what kind of self encircles value they put on that section below their waist and above their knees which lies just at the point where their legs connect to their torso. It seems to have instilled a level of arrogance and a litany of sarcasms, followed by a continual spill of 'what else do you have for me".. the harder part of this cycle is, they are obstinate to acknowledge these as being the predominant concerns of how they groom themselves into conditionally demanding selfish beings, who result to become and be generally 'anti-social'; unless they can find some request to issue for a favor or see some material aim they seek to acquire. It may take a great time span before this reality is faced by many, but the sad part is there are many who may never face nor make efforts to grow beyond this self encircled consumption of vain conditional absorption. Those who have found that loneliness has forced them to learn to respect the nature of sharing, and driven them to consider appreciating the natural reality of others, and some even come to see men as people, beyond seeing him only as a means for providing her a mental and material safety net. Probably the hardest challenge for many a woman is; to learn to actually appreciate someone without expecting to be given concession for being female and learning how to be able to share without an expectation of being compensated. this unfortunately escapes many woman, because there are many who never learn these simple realities of social function for the sake of harmony and developing the honestly in being able to actually share love. Too many think the word "love" means someone is suppose to give them something, and too many think the world share means someone should doing something for them or submitting to some whim they express, or acting like they want to become a submissive servant who caters to her as if they owe her something for simply showing up. what happen to women? As many are so far removed from anything and everything even remotely close to being someone who truly knows how to share and be motivated to do so. today, give many of them a decent paying job and the ability to pay bills, the first thing out of their mouth is how much they don't need anyone, and how much they don't need a man.. This is the utterance which tells the truth, that she never learned to see men as someone to share with, she has not grown beyond seeing men as a economic security blanket.. which leaves her void of the ability to even begin to know how t love and share within it as simply a help mate. Because of this mentality, often times too many men find nothing but a broad variety of covert hookers... and rarely does he find a woman who understanding how to love, share loving and appreciate him as a person and individual without any concern to measure his wallet, or rate him based on what kind of favors she can extract. To find a woman today who actually has the self regard to be a help mate is becoming a more rare find than one can imagine. There are some who exist, but be aware that it is far less a common find than one may imagine. Therefore for a man, don't become deluded by the face where you forget to realize that you must consider the character and humane demeanor, because over time, if the character and humane demeanor is lacking, then the allure and attraction to the face, butt or breast will fade quickly.. Everyday, many men find they can't get away from some pretty face, shapely butt and voluptuous breast women quick enough, because he find the lack of humanity and appreciative regard in character.. and results to find a selfish and manipulative self consumed individual who is driven by the vain consumption with self. Look around, and ask yourself, why are so many average looking women, and even some who are over weight, able to keep, maintain and actually make their relationships work for the long term, and then you will notice how much of a help mate these women are to the men who are with them. Many of these men, have the least of interest to leave these woman for the shapely, pretty faced self consumed play girls who are all about themselves.. It''s so often some men get these image trophies, and some result to divorce, leave them or be attracted away by women who actually have a sincere concern to share in mutual appreciation and being a honest help mate. who actually see him as a person and individual above any and all material concerns.. These are the women men find themselves sharing a lifetime with. now, some pretty face women with shapely bodies learn this and become genuine, but sadly.. many of the pretty face and shapely body women never learn this, and become bitter and contemptuous, because they rely solely on their face, butt and the bartering of sex, and time finds them alone in the long run... wondering why they can't keep anyone. It sometimes takes a lot for many women to grow beyond the mentality when it comes to dealing with men... some learn it early and some learn it late and some simply never learn it. Only when they come to learn to honestly share, do they then find the benefits of being a help mate.... then they know and come to find in their lives... the truths of loves flow... the women who find this truth .. rarely are women who issue ultimatums and they rarely will be women who will issue threats of leaving when they don't get their way, and these are woman who have the internal fortitude to deal with challenges and tribulations within relationship... because they know the value of growing together as help mates. |
