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What sense does it make ? It makes no sense in the reality perspective, for any woman to be what we call 'pretty or beautiful' and put time into being so, but she can't maintain a relationship... I think that is the most absurd and wasteful thing imaginable. What good is it if its not part of an inspirational component within making a relationship... Woman was made to look good to man, AS PART OF what would attract man to her for the sake of making good relations. Unfortunately, vanity, selfishness and greed, has derailed that horribly so. being what is termed pretty or beautiful; It's used far to often to abuse and mis-use others and to expect more than one is willing to put effort to contribute into building. if people knew the reality, maybe they'd learn better, because looks are meant to change, but within the changes, people should learn to be of better character which then becomes the bonding component long after looks have changed. __________________________ Funny thing I saw today... A couple, the woman was pretty, but it was evident that when she was younger she was very very pretty, the man was very much average looking, not fancy and looked like he put in the works to contribute to his family, the were neat, well groomed were reasonably good looking, but the woman and the man seem to not only enjoy each other, they joked, they played and yet they maintained their decorum as man and woman... if this woman had got hung up on her own looks when she was younger, none of that family would exist. |
