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Choices Choices men must face, #1 on he list, men must not assume just because she is female that is suppose to imply that she is honest or straight forth. #2 don't assume that being pretty to look at or having a shapely butt means anything more than the simple fact that she is pretty to look at and/or has a nice butt. it does not mean she is honest nor truthful nor does it mean she will respect or appreciate you. #3 don't fall for the stories led by a string of tears and whining, claiming some man did them wrong. Realize females are "not" an innocent bystander in any relationship. #4 men must realize many of the pretty women are being hit on by men in the web, men on the street, women on the web and women on the street. so they are not unaware of how to play the game of temp and tease, and play and dump, or any other game that exist .. bottom line is simple, " talk and get to know the person", and then you can find out what is true and what is not true and what is honest and what is not honest. some women will use sex for everything they can, and then trip and act like they are offended if a guy mentions sex, but its ok in her mind, as long as she feels she has the upper hand and can manipulate him or see something that she wants to manipulate him to get. If she's a honest female human being, then she won't make a trip about sex nor the talk of sex, because she is honest enough to not play games of pretending she does not know what it is, or that she is unaware of the games people make and play concerning sx. #5 don' start out offering to give or buy these women anything, and don't come off like you are willing to pay the cost of her life and living expenses... because if you do, you set yourself up to be played like a ATM, #6 as a man, your money should have nothing to do with whether or not you hook up and build a relationship with a woman, and her money should have nothing to do with whether or not she hooks up and build a relationship with a man. #7 If money has something to do with it, then you need to realize it is no more than a "hook*er and John" arrangement... and you'd be better off to ask her what she charges and if she charges by the hour, by the day, by the week or by the delusion of a relationship.. or you as a man should just make an offer of what you will pay by the hour, by the day, by the week or at the end of a delusion of a relationship. Add any other elements of choice you care to add to this post, because the more people are made aware, the more aware people become as a whole. Be of awareness in the choices you make... and understand what is involved within the structure of the choice.. because it certainly should consider more than the way a face looks, or the shape of an A** or the money in a bank account.. |
