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an empowering of woman An empowering of woman The battle for and of equality continues. Maybe the first step is to respect the difference in what is man and what is woman. Regardless of many things people want to trip on, there is a natural design and function difference between man and woman. Today, all these things trying to tell women how to be like men, for the madness of a movie telling women to think like a man. Its pure insanity, the natural nature of difference is by Design of the human being by gender distinctions. Recently there was a school in some foreign location wanting to remove the designation of him and her, and anything which distinguishes male from female. Maybe society should be wary of these type of things, because a male is always a male and a female is always a female.. if the male psychologically choose to chase other males, it does not change the fact they are male. and if a female psychologically choose to chase other females, it does not change the fact they are female. We have society so dis-satisfied with whom they are as individual as being male or female, until we have every kind of trip one can imagine of people trying to make a male be female, and female be male. No matter how one dress like a female or a female like a male, they are still what they are as to gender. Period!!! If women want equality as it relates to their gender in relation to a man as it relates to his gender.. Then simply be a woman who is self responsible.. And learn how to love as a self responsible woman, instead of a woman seeking some man to give her stuff and take care of her. be a woman who equally contributes, and equally shares and one who can be kind, considerate and gentle in being and doing so. Unfortunately when women take on a sense of self responsibility, they resent a man, simply because she has to be self responsible, they resent a man because she has to do things for herself.. and these women will chase other women quickly, with the thought that if she has to be responsible, then she just as well chase women, because that is what she identifies as being self responsible in the context of man. some can't be self responsible and still love and appreciate men. some can't buy things for themselves and get stuff for themselves and still have a desire to want to share life with a man. some can't be self responsible and self initiating and self motivated to initiate and engage sx with a man, because they want to play the passive game and pretend to be submissive and yet, ready to expect him to read her mind and spin her around in a loop until she can't think straight. Instead of being self inspired, self motivated and self responsible to be equally the initiator as well as the self asserting person in mutually sharing with a man. But the minute you put her in bed with a woman she is ready to be all of that. But she then wants to pretend she is the man in the bed. the funny truth is, 'the women who can and do keep their men, are the women who are self responsible, they have overcome the reluctance to initiate intimacy with their man, they tack actions to show him as much as she expect him to show her of desire in bed.. She is not laying there expecting him to do all the work while she lays there and pass judgments and make self consumed and self absorbed assessment about it. she is too busy giving as much as she expects to get, she is too busy appreciating the role of giving and sharing, and learning how to relax and appreciate rather than laying back judging and rating.. Or playing reluctant participant because he did not buy her some particular thing or do some particular favor for her. These women become empowered to be themselves as women, and in doing so they learn to appreciate being a woman and this enhances her ability to truly appreciate a man as a person, rather than some object based on cooked up scheme of game style bartering assessments to it. These women never even consider to feel unequal.. Because their make their sharing equal ... as them empower themselves to be equal in self responsibility within the relationship. These women are less likely to up and flip the script and claim they have suddenly fallen in love with their girlfriends, because she is busy being a responsible women who's sharing openly and with self motivations with the man in her life, or actively being self asserting in seeking out a man to share with, rather than sitting back waiting on some prince on a white to ride in out of the fog, she is more busy being a woman who is letting the man she seeks and desire know that she is willing and ready to share as a responsible woman. she then is less susceptible to some other woman playing seduction games on her by trying to make her feel she is treated as less than and then is not as gullible to some other woman, trying to convince her that the only way to get back at the man is to be seduced by her. more women get sucker played by other women, were so many women act blind to it, because they become caught by the cycle of it all and then find themselves in it and wondering what happen. The self responsible woman has no need to think in terms of getting back at the man, because she is less expecting of stuff and more respecting of what she can bring to share with the man. Not all women learn this, and many will fight against it because some don't want to learn anything different in this context. |
