| Blogs > beyondfantasy3 > Many Perspectives of Attitude |
|
Nobody's Lover ...... is this how you'd like your life to be ? Only you have the power and the force to change it. Today is the gift, tomorrow is not the promise, but a hope that one holds dear and wishfully to be. But; Truth be told ~ it is today, that you have, to be Someone's Lover"... It may be that tomorrow you get again to share being such, and being so, but it is today, that you have to be someones lover and someone to be your lover. It may lend itself to be again tomorrows tomorrow.. and on and on..., but what is the gift to embrace such expressive engagement is, "Today'.. for none get a secure promise of life tomorrow. The illusions delusion of seeking perfection, the collusive delusion of perfection of ones self is the means many make to deny themselves and thus many remain "Nobody's Lover'... The gifts of another's grace is found in the engagements of sharing, rarely is it found in the distant judgments. We build criteria as self protections, and claim it to be everything other than the truth, which many times is of our own fears seeking to protect ourselves from the pains we imagine. Time; again and again tells us always that growth comes by the odd mixture of pleasures and pains, yet, we continue to seek the pleasures without awareness that within such the pains are ours to resolve into understanding before it becomes the pains found within contention... and the oddity is we have the choice to make them become understanding long before they have options to become contention. We have the ability to share, rather than expect and demand; we have the ability to give and appreciate, before we choose to take and abuse. These things we have all of choice to choose.  Love often times is dressed not in the fantasy vision of our media depicted groomed imagery, but often times our greatest chance for loving is costumed in ways we'd never expect to look beyond the costume. We chase fantasy and deny reality, We fight reality trying to force it into the containment of a illusion of fantasy. Unaware we live by the moments, and our reality makes the magic which our awareness shows us the reality is its own unique fantasy being real. Shall you be "Nobody's Lover"... and find your life un-shared... or is the choice to be... "Somebody's Lover" and make your life a sharing of joys. does it matter that you dine in an opulent setting, or does it matter more than you can share the indulgence in the nourishment of food substance. does it matter that you have a market saturated label on your attire, or simply that you are clothed in clean attire ? does it matter who leads the conversation or is it more important to appreciate sharing the inputs within conversing. does it matter if your mate is envied by your friends, or is it more of a matter that you enjoy the mate you have chosen to share with. if one considers such things, and choose the ability and engage the capability to share, then you will too be 'somebody's lovers", and unto another you become their 'somebody who is their lover. Lest vanity and delusions continue in making you... "Nobody's Lover". |
