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how much do you trust "today's" woman ( in general) |
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thanks for the response, these questions were designed to hopefully show women some of the things men can thin about because of the way society is today... the main thing is for the women to show the man that, she wants him because she likes him as a person and individual without regards to money or material things.
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5/8/2012 7:16 pm |
i think sometimes we must share our money with woman. even if, there's not a lot of money.
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some women are genuinely good individuals, and some have a sincer appreciation of man, but there are many who have been groomed to see men for economic status before they see him as a human being. this simply means men need to be very discerning about his choices in woman. but equally so, men may need to learn to appreciate woman without putting her on a pedestal above himself.. then he will be able to see her more clearly. The illusions and delusions, that woman is more than man, is why so many men become lost in the connections. Stop giving your life over to the manipulations of the women who choose to be manipulators. Stop bowing down and kissing her ass for sx, and stop acting like you have to owe her something for talking to you. when men stand up for himself and stop begging women and stop trying to appease them just to be friendly.. because if she is not humane enough to be a friendly person without you buying her something, giving her something or offering up favors, then you must realize that is not the woman for you, and she may not be the woman for anyone but a fool. Being female does not warrant her a free ride on your labors nor does it warrant her the right to try and manipulate you with the on and off sx games and fake smiles. stop falling for the trips and you will find and see the real side of the woman then you can make a reasonable choice. Pretty can be as treacherous as it is beautiful if you blind yourself to the reality presented in the character. Men must first realize than not all but many women are born actresses, and they will act out any role they think will dupe you if you are gullible to fall for it. The men who put up the stop sign that reads "no Bull_it allowed, then you will find that many woman will avoid your and only those who are honest will come forth. There are lots of women who have the integrity of being good and honest individual, who is willing to contribute as much as they expect to share and have shared with them. These are the women whom will not only respect and appreciate you as a man, they will be pro-active to insure they are giving as much as they expect to get and share. If you find anything less, then realize it is not the woman for you. If you meet women who are so hung up on her own looks that she expects you to kiss her ass for being with you, then you need to let her go, and go find a woman who understands how to respect and appreciate and who understands that sharing is a two way thing. If you meet a woman who makes a game of sx as if you have to woo and win her every day, then you are setting yourself up to be used and abused. if you meet a woman who makes games of sex, and want you to do more than she is willing to do for you, to share it, then you will get pimped. If she is not willing and self motivated to put the same effort in initiating sx as she expect, then you will get played and eventually duped and dumped, If you are with a woman who thinks her sx organ is above and better than yours, then you have met a fool who will take advantage of you at any chance she gets and will act like you owe her something on a continual basis. THINK.... and be aware to insure that you are respected as much as you are respectful ... when these things fall in place, then you can worry less about money or the trips that involve money...
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you are correct .. many men do like to hunt... and you are also correct about the men who put the women on a pedestal... and the cycle which results. what is meant about pretty women, is unless she is SELF motivated to be with a guy, he may be best not to chase her.. because in many cases temptation is very powerful and not all women can resist the temptation of other suitors especially when it comes wrapped in dollar bills  It's much about looks and money in the general public and a lot of the internet is about looks and money.. other than those two things, people don't make as much effort to learn each other as individuals. in both cases, the individual only have themselves to blame when it does not work,.. especially when they don't make the efforts to be open and free flowing in learning about each other. this site is full of "posturing".. many people afraid to talk because they don't know what side of themselves to show. The trust factor is far less than one would imagine, and the openness factor is even lesser than one would expect to find. many even claim if their profile how friendly they are, but they certainly don't demonstrate it by being interactively engaging even in general blogs. Here in this city, many I'd probably say most men, who have chosen a wife have women who are carrying a few to some carry more than a few extra pounds.. but many of those men will not leave their woman for a skinny woman, and many of the women with extra pounds seem to stay with their men a lot longer than the skinny or slim women stay with any man. It's interesting because bigger women seem by some means to be able to keep their men and the even more interesting thing is the men seem to be a lot more relaxed and happy than some of the guys with the skinny or slim women. also, I notice many of the bigger women seem to have little problem working and contributing to the relationship and pitching in to share the housing and living expense. I think the skinny or shapely women in some situations, resent having to pay anything. but there are always exceptions... I see many couples doing many things and raising a family and often times these women have a few extra pounds but they seem to be happy, they laugh and smile and speak freely and with self motivation.. many shapely and nice figured women are in some ways more anti social and many are very conditional to a higher saturation than the heavier women. Oddly, in some Asian locations because many of the women are slim and some skinny, they don't have the same trip so much, because they know there are 1000's more slim ones all over the place.. so they have to work on being a nice person... because they don't stand out as far as body shape, because many of them are the same relative size. but that does not rule out the money angle which is something that exist on every continent.
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Making the decision by your head, not your heart and you won't have any regret. under this premise, would it not bring greater benefit to use a combination of heart and head ?
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6/10/2012 7:14 am |
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9/30/2012 8:52 am |
I think a man should give a woman alimony. If they was married for many years he should and if their are kids too he must give money to the woman.
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