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Love is.... Love is... more than a summary of words can contain, as it continues to overflow into many things as the days comes and go and come again... It's far more than just the good times of smiles and laughs and soft feeling, it is the times that bring the need which require the showing of compassion, it is the times that understanding becomes necessary to play its role, and it comes the times when hard choices rely on care and consideration, and the reflections on past challenge that build wisdom, which may be put to use to keep love growing. It's more than the tingle between the legs, and much more than the flush face of pleasures moments, it's far more than a moment of tears, and it become to contain moments of all such things. If one truly has the heart to honestly love. Love is when there are no answers to the reasons of care, and no excuse needed for the giving of compassion, it is of many things, and lives through many things, if its seeks to be love and remain loving as being love. Love is why we have life..... It is far more than a want to be patronized, or romanticized, it is full with the wants to share being recognized by one and each unto and of the other. Love is always an experience of learning, it is the force within growing and it is stronger than fear, wiser than foolishness, and more soothing than the pains within its makeup, love brings a song, and makes the movements of a dance, some moments it is the gentle graces of romance, some moments it is the quest to meet challenges and seek means to pursue triumph. Love has no price, nor does it require a fee of material monetary measure, love is easily abused by a fool, and disregarded by the idiocy of many. It is often abused when vanity consumes one and the game of pretense takes unfair advantage of loves truth from another. Love is - the will to grow, and the want to learn, it is the passion to know truth, and live with truths expressions and demonstrations. Love is- far more than about receiving, it is equally so about giving, and love becomes balanced when two learn the realness of what it is to share. love contains the solitude as well as the unity of two people sharing a journey, it is as much of one being self, than one trying to be a clone of another, love is and become loving when the uniqueness of individuals engage to interact as a pair and function as a team. it is not about you, nor about the other, Love is about Love, and many may find means and ways to continue to share Love, if they understand that Love is about Love. It then can bond both, into the graces of its beauty. Love is to be respected, for to disrespect it is to create a hell of one's own making ( inspired by the response to a post) |
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Many people destroy relations of love when they try and make it be all about themselves. !!!!!!!!!!!!!! if this simple thing can be understood by many, they may find the reasons they continue to destroy the relationships where love could exist. Love must always be about Love- for the sake of love.. then it comes within being a bonding agent between two, as it remains being love for the sake of being love. Not many choose to grasp the depth of this truth that Love is about Love. and some badger each other and torment themselves, with the continual whine of 'what about me" ? they fail to understand love is about love... and the answer to the "what about me", is simple. you should be about love, and let love flow within you, and there is less time or need to scream, "what about me"... Love is not measured by the trinkets one receives nor gives, Love is never about one acting as a servant unto the other, but it is about the embrace of all that love is as being love, which inspires one to seek and want to share what they have and what they can. Far too many let their vanity of vain obsession about themselves, destroy the options, the choice, and the opportunity for love to be a bonding agent with anyone. Such one's will try and make use of love for selfish means, and create a circle of hell, and bring about foolishness that makes the realization of mad men and fools, become the nature of relations. Love is never and will never be about you, because Love is about Love for the sake of Love- if you choose to embrace it, it can and will bond your with another, if you choose to seek to use it and abuse it, and make it about yourself, it will continue being about itself, and you will continue to bring pains unto yourself, the more you try and make it about yourself. You can attach criteria, and conjure up games, and play the cycle and follow the circle of fools... Yet, none of it will change Love from being about Love. And you will cry your pains a plenty.. and when the opportunity to share Love is long past, then you weep for the folly and foolishness of your vain ways. For always,.... Love is to be respected for being Love, because Love is about Love, and to disrespect it is to create a hell of ones own making.
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