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strange things about age How many older men, truly trust that younger women can be sincere and work to maintain a relationship ? technically, it should not matter if there is a large gap in age, because people are people. But for a man, of 50, with a woman of 20, it is unlikely that the women will have an long term devotional connection in this arrangement.. If there is money involved, it may keep her for a while, but when she gets vested where she knows if she leaves she can take half, the likely hood of her leaving is multiplied. it may be the differences in interest may split them long before money becomes a matter. The same could and maybe would apply to older women with a younger man. now the questing is : is there an age gap that is functional ? maybe, maybe not.... but there may be a age spectrum that may well be considered.. such as. if there is a gap in age, the woman should at least be past 27, and if it is an older woman with a younger man, the age of the man should at least be 40 . Reasoning: by 27 many young women realize they are no longer the queen who can play 30 games of ego manipulations a day. by 40 the man knows that he has to think in terms of stability, more than vain. many women, divorce between 27 - 43 , because their sense of self changes during these years, and if they married prior to, unless they are very stable and dedicated to work with challenges.. but generally many are in divorce mode between 27-43. but this figure may be different for the women who were at least 27 when they married, they may be able to surpass the high probability of divorce phase. It's really a shame, because its such a waste, especially when the biological clock of birth is at its height between 17 and 27, if women were more stable minded during this phase of birth, there maybe would be more stable families, but because of the material matter and concerns and the vanity of ego temptations, this range is not only the high frequency of birth age, but it is also the high frequency of jump from mate to mate age. you are welcome to agree or disagree, but share your thoughts. This is not written to be a cast in stone fact, it is written to get interactive conversation going. by all means, join in and let's make a debate of it... |
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There is no right answer, so express your thoughts freely.
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7/10/2012 4:48 am |
Hey oldtimer, so when will you introduce your 27 year old girlfriend to us 
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you are at the right age for me..... good sense of humor, open mind, self responsible and quite charming but realistic 
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all things are certainly possible
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