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"The Sham" The whole process of what is today's version of dating is "the sham". The whole concept of dating is really a Bullcrap program. women think its theirs to control and men make fools of himself trying to be a entertainment promoter for women who have a sense of entitlement to make use of his money, his time and his interest. while they are being pimped by a media depiction of a marketing promotional campaign, dictating to them where they should go and how to judge each other about the act to simply agree to share time together ... the whole game of it all is set up to see who is going to pay the most for the lure of sex... and who will make pledged to pay for it on a long term basis, until nothing about the sham of dating is based on sharing, nor on the simplicity of sharing time. If you think this is a lie... go walk up to a woman and ask her to go for a walk in the park.... you will hear every excuse possible in the world... It's pure crazy.... and people are so conditioned to play the sham, until they will get angry and not share time with anyone if they can't control the situation, or have expense paid and get someone to play 20 submission to task and bow down and worship their self conceited vanity about themselves. This is often followed by a bargained program of selling sx by proxy vote of who will pay the most and who will assume the financial responsibilities of her whims. Guys run about in a cycle of pretense, trying to pretend he can afford to pay for whimsical illusions that she nor he care anything about, except it supports a process of who can Bull-_it the other more... by the time both of them finish with the 20 lies games, they can't stand each other, because they see each other as liar and filled with scheme and self delusions, all the while with a smile plastered on their faces. If she is pretty to look at, often time you can be guaranteed it will go into stupid mode very quickly, and if he has money, the bought and paid for attitude will be overt.... They each use sex like it's a drug and they are the drug dealer, trying to use it to make a junkie out of the other. SOMEHOW PEOPLE FORGOT WHAT THE REALITY OF LOVE IS ALL ABOUT. Not only did people forget what love is about, they forgot that choosing someone to share time and appreciate the time shared is more important than all the gold, money, material things one can ever imagine within their material illusions. Because at the end of the day, what matters is whom one shares appreciations with. And that has nothing to do with anything material |
