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Starting a new job a new job with many new challenges, but its composed of things I've done in the past and done well. Step one.. gather all the new information I can and communicate |
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Thank you... I feel I can make some good contributions. Generally when one change happens, options for other opportunities come to the forefront within the same time frame.. that has been like that my whole life.. Opportunities come in groups... I Thank God for the ever-presence of grace and the continual unfolding of opportunities and affording me choices to select among. There are some dry spells, but those are usually, times for more learning and gaining better clarified understanding. The very same day after I started this current job, a friend called with a potential offer in California.. which may be close to double the salary, (not sure because she has not given me the final figure). quite tempting, I don't have a woman or kids that would hold me back, but my mother is here and she is 80 now and I don't think it would be good to go for money and miss these years with her. I like many things about California, and for sure the weather and the women are much slimmer and a wider variety to select among. but, I also know the reality of Living in California. Much can be a trip about the women as well as it will involve buying another house when all these things might look interesting, a big piece of the extra pay always becomes consumed by finding suitable and comparable living quarters. I do re-call the last time I was there, I realized how much I did not like the traffic, as well as no matter how many nice things there is to look at, it still cost money to interact with what ever it is. Because California is about having money to do stuff and if there is any curtailment to the disposable portion of the income, it changes things. It's not very hectic here, there is a difference in a wide variety of things, but at my age, I'm not a club runner, nor do I care much for fancy dining, I enjoy being at home, with a good movie, the things I like and not being pressured to think I go to go out and do a bunch of stuff if tht is not what I want to do. probably the thing that is missing here, is the woman of my choice. I already know I want and like slim women, with happy smiles, good cheerful demeanor and one that is not a drama junkie, nor one that has to be on the go 24/7... I find no delight in the women, who have that " I gotta go" attitude, as if no matter where they are, they are ALWAYS, with the "I gotta go" attitude. It's quite irritating. Here, the women are more at ease with simple things, nothing has to be over excessive expensive or grandiose. So in the over-all its just like anything in life - there are always the plus and the minus -- and reality will always come down to me being at peace with myself where ever I am, and making the best of my living experience.
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Today, there seems to be more a matter of "security in employment", more than a flash of opportunity that has pre-designed limits. It does not mean that one cannot find stability and possibly secure a spot that is ongoing. but a matter of doing work that one feels is truly worthwhile is probably most important, because then it is certain one will continue pursuing more to learn. I have good transferable skills and lots of supervisory experience to support it, but I am constantly looking at how much more there is to learn about things, how much it takes to stay up to date of what has been previously learned... and it is certainly an asset to have developed the ability to work well with others. funny thing in this life, even those who make the most money are not always the most at peace with themselves individual, and no matter how much money is made, when the game is over, no one has ever taken one penny with them. so the best for me at this point either way is to learn to make better choices in how I utilize resources and try to insure that it does good to not only benefit me, but others as well. the works of life continue through-out living... I'm hoping to maintain health and do well in all aspects.
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Thank you Princess, I find you also to be very enjoyable to know..  good spirit, honest and open unto life and its realism.
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