beyondfantasy3 113M
2012 posts
9/7/2012 5:16 am
Making relationships


What an interesting thing. It would be great if so much distance did not exist between locations.
I'm quite certain I'd have made a relationship long ago .....

The distance between continents is just too much to deal with to claim a relationship beyond friends. but it is good for making friends, even if you don't talk on a daily basis.

The other oddity is, the women who are within the "States", sadly it seems far too many are worried too much about title's, labels and wallets.. in the big picture of life.. that should not be such a determining factor between people making relations, but with the mass media driving the minds of so many women, its unlikely that this trend will change any time soon. but as with life, many things of strange realities do take place.

In close proximity making relationships would not be of much difficulty, because it happens by the simplicity of sharing time.

beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
9/8/2012 8:09 am

We all have our particulars-- they make up a many things, but always is there an individual whom we are attracted to, sometimes there is not even a definition of singular point we can or do point to, because the human being is so marvelous and unique.
the look of every ethnicity of woman is itself unique and broad in the spectrum of their appeal.
I don't buy into the illusion nor do I choose the delusion that Asian women are in any way better than other women in the human sense of life. I also don't think that any ethnic woman is more virtuous than another, it is all about an individual choice of the individual woman.
What women value and how they deal with those values, are not always in accord with the folklore of the environment they are raised, because many people interpret many things differently and as people age and come to see a broader world, it is a fact, that everyone can and will change

I don't see much of what it is about the way they use language that would influence me, in the sense of whether she speaks good or not so good English. I'm more interested in her willingness to be a person who makes efforts to communicate.

Things I care about is that she is within herself a happy spirited person, who is not a loud and abrasive person in public and knows how to be a considerate being over all. I'm not into these who have a consumption with vanity to the point that they think they should be worships, because of the look of her face or the shape of her butt.. and I don't care much from women who have an outward presentations as if they think they are better than everyone.

As to looks, I like the looks of Asian women, as well as I like the looks of many women from many ethnic groups, as well as many bi-racial looks.
I do care that a woman is 'slim figured, I am not a big fan of big breast nor big butt's its just a person thing that does not phase me as being the master deal maker. slim figure is a strong attraction point for me personally. As is a clean appeal.. I don't care for excessive make up, nor do I care at all for wigs. I'm not much for whiners nor those women who act too feminine as if they can't do anything physical in the least bit. I'm not looking for a masculine women nor a woman who tries to emulate men, but I do care that a woman is a functional individual.
But it is for certain I do like a woman who is appreciate of what is the nature of being a woman.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
9/9/2012 3:52 pm

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I think you treat women with high regard and openness and will be a great friend as well as mate to the ones you have chosen and those whom you may choose.
it's unfortunate in society today.. by the time some women realize what they have and whom they had... they have burned the bridge and throw every kind of rocks they can at the person standing on the other side. Sadly, they've taken everything they could and now stand on the other side of where there was one a bridge, surrounded by the relic's that she sacrificed her dignity and abandoned her honesty to get.. and all then she has is a bunch of junk to lug around, because she forgot to connect the appreciations and the respect to the things she coveted and manipulated to get. and soon those things become worthless and void of meaning.
The ego she rides away on runs out of steam and by the time she realize the bridge back is burned down...she again.. recharges her game and repeats the cycle until age does not bring any more options into the game to be preyed and played upon. Then, she makes claim that she has learned to be a good person.
This sad scenario happens millions of times, and the good and the honest of men, have seen many bridge burned before his eyes... while he tries to hope she will quench the flame before it destroys where there was once a bridge.