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Interesting World of Today What happen? there was a time in life that a true and honest goal of people was to share their lives with someone. Today, the motivations of people to put the pursuit of money, the lust for status, and the chase of vanities ego's "FOREFRONT"; seems to dominate the spectrum, until even the facial pretty becomes "ugly in spirit" , "rude in manner" and at times "vicious in actions" . Societies are now, "more than ever" in the history of the human social environment is filled with people who pursue fake over being natural, people pursue to re-make themselves with plastic and wigs, extension, weaves and any kind of things that is outside of their natural self. Something "Great" has been lost, even more sad, people use sex like its a gambit game, and other become consumed with plastic toys, both followed by a selfishly groomed level of arrogance, which ultimately displays ignorance by many creative means. The deprivation of this simply things of care to be ones natural self, and care to be considerate- has left a void in the where once appreciation and the acceptance of being appreciated filled that void. In many situations today, one can't tell the difference in being with a and being with someone who claims to love, because both are measuring everything by money, rationing out consideration based on what kind of "tip" they expect to receive. One would more likely today in many situation be treated with more kindness and consideration from a than from the one that claims to love them. People are less inclined to build something together, instead more people today are looking to ride the coat tail at someone else expense. People talk about education as if it builds integrity, when most degree focus is related to job function and has little to do with learning how to be a considerate and kind person, or how to respect others. It is like a caste and class madness, based on a GPA, and the ignorance in the relationships bring the kind of break up that border on insanity. Some walk around as if a certificate has made them a God or a Goddess, when the result of the demeanor become more like a fool consumed with haughtiness and driven by a status based madness. Some want to claim money has made them king or queen of the social spectrum, then others truly believe that over priced fashion makes them above the realism of being social human beings. The material obsessions and the external consumptions has blinded people of the ability to see one another. Today, we have women who have facial appeal, whom have allowed it to convert them into anti-social, rude and arrogant individuals in far too many aspects of society, the media depicts what look is to be obsessed over this week, and next week if it sells products to change the look, then it changes, and people follow like blind and mad maniac's... then wonder why they can't sustain a relationship. Too many are playing the game of "PRETEND", if it is thought to gain them a financial benefit at the expense of someone else. some claim values, which fade away with the volume of dollar signs they aim to pursue.  The word "Love" is used like a 'fake play on sincerity', if it is thought to get one status or money or the access to live without paying their own way. then you get others who seek an excuse, by claiming they are looking for a "True Love", when they know darn well that "Love is simply Love". but many of those claiming to be holding out for a "True Love" are in essence saying they are extremely selfish and want to be worshiped, more than they have interest to be a sharing person. They are in fact saying, they will only share on a "tit for tat" basis, and if they don't get paid the way they expect, they will flee or make sure they treat the other miserable until they up and leave. The landscape is so full of half witted phony people, who think they can cover their face with make up to hide the conniving mentality they have invested themselves to develop. some come with a phony overly fictitious claim of 'sophistication', until they are self constricted and eager to constrain the realism of another. The " I'm better than you" mentality has made the world a madhouse of fools and idiots who constantly insult the very meaning of "Love"... for the sake of their own selfish vanity, greed and arrogance. Interesting World of Today is a danger zone created by the vain arrogance of selfish individuals. |
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Love is not possible to live without the essence of it being of truth... because by its nature, one either feels it or they do not. People confuse the choice of individual to make use of the pretense of love for selfish gains. People confuse the choice of individuals to what to love more than one, with claims that love is not true.. But the reality is, there in life are cultures that support the love of more than one, but it is done in truth, where each party is aware that loves exist between others within the relationship... We too often think in self-centered madness, driven by a desire for and of 'ownership' of others, when fact is, none and no one can own another. People make agreements and develop understanding in how they will manage a relationship... when they care to love someone. a lie can insult love, but it does not mean love does not exist, it means that a lie has attacked love in ways that can and will remove the truth, and when the truth is removed so then does love diminish in its existence until it is no longer Love under the agreement first entered as to how that relationship will function to support and maintain love. Therefore, craft your relationships with honesty and the truths will show the strength of love's beauty. None who walks is perfect and none who walks will ever be perfect...therefore if any choose to grow in love and for the depth of love to expand, first and foremost get the delusion of perfect out of your mind, and dispense with the illusion that you are of perfection.. Then you might find that your mind is then able to develop and work with communications to enhance understanding. If one develops this skill effectively, they also will develop the ability to sustain a desired relationship.
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Here in this website many are quick to claim how open and how communicable they are.. but many equally so, demonstrate how reluctant they are to engage discussion about anything. some even adopt envy as their basis, refusing to engage discussion because they have contempt toward the writer until they can't indulge the subject material. some even go so far as to have ethnic and racial bias that dictates to whom they engage to communicate. In some it is so deep, it would drive them to become forced to abandon their bias in accepting that the stereotyped concepts they hold so dear, are not true and void of foundation.. but to cling to such bias, they will prefer to remain disengaged to support maintaining their stereotyped concepts. Yet, such one would deem to claim themselves Intelligent, what an irony of many a makings. Some ignore to engage, as their way of showing obstinate motivations, because they refuse to support the participation of another within the blog sphere. But some of the same will make claims of how nice they are, how congenial they are, but their actions and motivation demonstrate something far different. It's funny in this particular site, but the minute a pretty face is posted along beside a blog, the ass kissing crowd comes out in force with a litany of patronizing jargon's. Even still with the site being populated by 'Adults', the apprehensive demeanor to express ones self is astoundingly prevalent in this site. Yet, as adults, one by every means should come to learn that it is by the ability to put to exercise the act of communication, rather than waiting on a fantasy illusion to delude them based on looks, material matter or the lure of money or the gambit based lure of sex... Yet, people claim Adult, based on the age, but omit to consider the basis of Adult should include the maturity to be self expressive that they may not only be understood, but that they may share understanding with another or others. But for vanity consumption; the nature of being socially interactive beings would surely multiply.
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