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do you like dating over weight women? women do you like dating over weight men ? what do you think is the plus and the negative of choosing an overweight mate ? |
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Woaini, you summed it up very well. Let me say, here there are so many unhealthy over weight people it is truly a very terrible condition that only worsens with age. I have learned a great deal from my dogs about eating as well.. some people thing dogs eat anything and eat up stuff as fast as you put it in front of them. My dogs are not like that, I keep food in their bowl at all times, they do not eat it during the day, both of them actually eat out of the same bowl, one will eat some and the other eat some. But they simply do not gobble it up in a flash, both of them are beautify in the way they manage their weight. Today, I visited some friends who worked in the previous building I was working, they said seems that I am loosing weight, I noticed I had to use an extra notch in my belt, because my pants kept slipping when I walk, I simply have to keep up the weight loss until I get to the weight I want to be. I am very selective about the fast food I eat, as well I'm selective about what I eat at home . I am guilty of too many sweets, but I'm working on that to try and manage my glucose- I take vitamins, I drink water, because I actually like the taste of water. I do drink soda and sugary juice, but I may drink a soda at times, but not every day, and not 3 or 4 a day. when I was younger, I'd have soda's spread all over the work place, because I was continually buying them, until some years ago, one guy got very sick, because he drank big gulp(s) all day, the doctor told him the stuff was destroying his stomach. I see so many big women here, some seem to carry it and remain light on their feet, some simply slow drag about. some women simply have big body structures, but the ones that are not appealing in the sense of mating with, are the women who simply are plan and simple "fat in the sense of gross obesity", which is self inflicted.. yet, I 100% agree with Woaini, everyone is to be respected as a individual and appreciated as a person and I certainly respect them.. but that does not mean I will date them, nor sleep with them. Over the years, some of the best friends women I've had as friends were overweight women, for some reason they are 1000% more times friendlier than shapely women, and generally they have 10,000 times greater considerate personalities and character. In many ways the over weight women are more generally socially honest than many of the slim women.. Why that is so, is such a strange oddity in life. and it is for certain, a friendly in general with a over weight woman will endure far longer than friendships with thin and shapely women. they seem to be more real about life in general and less about trying to make everything about what between their legs and be manipulative based on it.. it is such an interesting thing.
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Some women wanted to introduce me to their friends, then when they realized that I'm not romantically interested in FAT and Obese women, they quickly stopped trying to introduce me. many women honestly think all men like big butt!!! well,I can assure any woman, that I'm not attracted to 'big butts'.. on a romantic mate level. I simply don't find it as something that is the attraction point for me. Nor am I attracted to very large breast.. It simply is not a romantic mate attraction point for me. but there are many many guys who find these to be their primary focal point, and that is fine. the only thing I find irritating and frustrating with slim figure women who have a nice look, is they are rude and arrogantly too willing to throw their selfishness around and act like they are above the reality of general life. Sadly, some shapely women are very difficult to trust to be even honest in general conversations, especially once they get that monetary fever.. or two or more guys have complimented them.. that head gets bigger than a hot air balloon.
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I have to agree for the sake of what is of health realism and the appeal of a healthy proportionate management of body mass. For me personally, I am not motivated nor of romantic relationship aims to obese women. The world has many shapes of people, but people in many cases have a great deal to do with how that turns out. Not all cases, because there are many factors involved in the body's natural development. I've seen people have fat babies, fat toddlers, and body parts that simply do not match with the rest of the bodies proportion, those who have no control to change or manage it find means to be accepting and simply go on to work on being a good person. truth and fact is, everyone truly is beautiful to someone in their special way. what one may find not appealing may be ideal for another. It's just human nature and life. I personally know guys who do not prefer any women who is not obese and over 250 pounds, there are men who like women who have breast that look 3-4 times too large for her body, or women who's butt protrudes to the extent it appears a foot longer than the average butt, or women who actually have not butt, where he legs connect directly to her back with no rise in the butt area.
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