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A lesson about "Love" People will continue to barter based on the same delusions, people will continue to chase illusions, and some even get caught in the grand delusions of finding some perfect match, or as some call it a 'soul mate", and most of those only remain in the delusion of soul mates, as long as one is agreeing to everything the other says'.. (Notice I said , One is agreeing) I did not say both are agreeing with each other.. but the minute there is the disagreement, the first thing out of the one who has been getting all the agreements unto their utterances, will quickly claim, that 'they are no longer soul mates".. People create many delusional games in their lives.. and reality slaps them every time, to wake up to the fact that 'any and every relationships will be about 'what two people HONESTLY come to terms to MUTUALLY agree upon from their own individual stand to do so, or it will find discord. Sex is no more than one thinks it is at the moment they are focused upon it, and one does not get their way about something unrelated to sex, they will make a judgment against sex, based on their dis-satisfaction about something which is not related to sex. Women will try and use looks to manipulate whatever they can when there is the available opportunity to do so, and they will do it often if they think it’s not detected.. And the same goes for men, based on his looks or his money and if he has looks and money, he will use both to try and manipulate things. People can be and are at times mischievous.. Until they learn that: * Honest is the only pathway for love... * Love does not support mischievous activity, nor does it give itself to dishonesty, in the face of dishonesty and mischief, love by its very nature, will not rest until honestly becomes the foundation for it to be itself. * Love is the pains of learning as well as its the joys of celebrating what is learned. * Love is the truths that set each free, and truths are the realism's that let's love be all it can be. * You can't cheat love.. Because love is and will always be what it it is, and it is the best of the honesty of living truthfully. * When people can't live with the lies they created to pretend to love, they find turmoil and discord at every turn. they become contentious and combative and deceptive acts become to consume their mind in seeing ways to incite to fury or drive stakes which promote anguish. All in their escape efforts to run from their own lies, and seek to lay blame on anything and everything except themselves. * Love by the force of its reality, will make one enjoy many things within living or it will make one’s life filled with cycles of hellish challenges, if the acts and efforts one claims is not of honest and done in the lights of truth. No one hurts the other, but people hurt themselves, by their acts and motives as well as their blindness to the acts and motives of the other.. Love is about open eyes, open minds, and open hearts and the openness to live within the reality that light shines upon. If money is your love, you shall find the miseries that money has tied within what it inspires in people. This includes the good, but the bad comes when you are continually faced with the things people will maliciously do for money. * Love will not in and of itself be abused by persons, but to disrespect it will bring one to abuse and mis-use themselves, and then they try and blame it on love wrongly. And still Love remains what it is. Until people choose to respect love for being all that it is, then claim not to be in love with anyone. Because one has not given the respect unto love for being what love is. If you got the hot’s for someone sexually, you better know that is what it is, and don't try and pretend it is love when it’s not. If you got the lust for someone’s money, don't try to pretend its love, when you know it’s not. Of many things, choose... choose not to pursue sex with someone you don't respect. If you choose sex with someone, make sure to respect them, even if there is no love nor aims to be in love. You may not be in love with the person, but you should respect them as a person... * Sex with people you don't respect, will bring you a level of disrespect unto yourself. People don't understand this simple rule.. It takes mutual respect and mutual agreement to pursue sex outside of love for that sex to be mutually respectful of each person.. But be Aware, that love can creep in and if it does it will force each to seek truth of its existence, and if it it is not mutual, they will be forced apart by their acts and actions toward each other. * You can't fool Love... but disrespecting Love, can and will make you make a fool of yourself. |
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