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do we run away from love? ( interesting blog from "datingish" website) Why do we run away from love? It’s stupid, silly, childish. Why can’t we fall head over heels and live happily ever after like in the movies? Because this is real life. And we are scared. We find someone we are attracted to. Someone we want to kiss. Someone we want to be with. But from day one we insist on “no strings attached.” Because we are cowards. We are afraid of commitment. We don’t want to take care of someone else when we can barley take care of ourselves. We make it our goal not to fall in love. It starts off as an innocent hookup, but before we know it we are meeting the friends, lounging all afternoon, texting just to see how each others days are, and cuddling. We fall in love. There is no such thing as friends with benefits or sex friends—someone we can call up at any hour of the day just to have sex with. Because sooner or later, we get attached. ( from Datingish website. |
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the problem with many women is they are too temperamental, as you say some women may do certain things, but the questions is: Is she doing this because of really contributing out of love and care to share.. or is it an agenda that is done only when the benefits seem to be greater. Now there are women, who do work 50 - 50 with some men, I think to me, those are the best women for any man to find. A woman told me, she pays the utilities and buy the groceries, and the may pays the Mortgage, they work out agreements on how vehicles are paid for and Insurance. but these men who think assuming all the expense is making him a man.. often find out that he has been pimped, and some find it out quickly the minute his income changes. find a woman who contributes to the expense of living. regardless how much money you have. make sure she contributes to the expense of living. A relations is about two people contributing to make it work... if it is one sided by any means, it will probably tip over and it is prone to break.
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