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Men Today... Men today are not like the men of decades ago.. Decades ago society pretended to be blind to thing women do, but today, Men are much more aware, and many men have seen situations or they know of situations and some have experienced situations, where the women have taken many things, when they decide they want to leave him. The Media is full of woman who walk away with half of what a man owns after he has worked his whole life to acquire things. And some women come and spend a couple of years and expect to get half. Men today are certainly not willing to blindly trust women as he once did during the era of time when societies were less aware. Today, just being pretty and acting demure does not fly like it use to, men are much more aware to pay attention to the over-all character, and men are less blind to the manipulations. Men do not desire women any less, in the sense men still want and like women, but he is much more discerning and far less gullible to soft voices and pretenses of being passive. Today, men are much more aware to take note that when women don't get their way, they throw tantrums or there is certain to be an argument. The men who are smart will be smart enough to let her do exactly what she wants to do, because that is the only way to see exactly whom she is. The men who act like he wants to stop her from doing certain things, is usually the man who get's duped, because she knows all too well how to hide things from him. Let her do what she wants to do, wear what she wants to wear, because that is the only way you will find out how she is and see what it is she is all about. Then you can make an informed decision and choice as to whether or not she is the type of person you want to be with. When you catch her in a lie, there is no need to expect her to fess up and tell the truth, because many times it likely is not going to happen. so be aware enough to acknowledge the lie and make a decision if this is the type of person you want to be with, because it does not good to try and badger the situation to think she is going to admit to lying, because she is not.  These are some of the better ways to actually see and get to know who the woman is and how she functions. Long before you wrap yourself into a situation that might other wise turn into the worst nightmare you can imagine. Today, men are looking for honest women, and women who are not manipulators and wrapping everything in a bargain or always trying to have everything all her way, or she walks around with a attitude and a stand offish demeanor about herself. Today, many men are paying far more attention to look beyond the beauty and the booty... because he knows if he does not, it may become a situation out of the twilight zone. Most women don't know how to deal with it, because they are so use to duping the man, or using their looks and the booty on and off games, and sulking attitudes to try and control the relationship... and today, it simply is not working... But sadly, many women are simply just not willing to change within themselves.... So men are not making the acts of jumping into relationships so quick.. Now, its a matter of if women will come to realization that she will have to become an appreciator and one who actually has a self motivation to share and a self motivated desire to want to make a relationship work... or otherwise she will simply be without a man. |
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There are many men who do not treat women fair and there are many a man who does not treat woman equitable. Sadly in this world, there are many men caught in the cycle of their self interest dogma, of seeking not only to dominate women, but some become to be bigoted and brutal in their relation with and toward and unto women. Such men, become for less than to stand as a man, for he has neglected his responsibility of being with respectful regard of the differences in male and female beings as being equally due to the right of life and self liberty. As of Man, being the Head of the Household... it means he stands for truths which serve to guard, guide and protect and make available provision for the family, and he is thus made responsible to embrace this blessed position. No man has the right not the position to abuse woman, nor is he of a position not stature to treat woman as though she is enslaved. He shall share counsel with his woman of regards that concerns the unity of family and the respectful sharing of their aspirations. without counsel, one both speaks as well so with equal consideration, one too listens. The concerns of man and the concerns of woman vary in their distinctions, but they each are a part of the whole that makes up the union of family and home. Each by the nature within them, have the innate drives of area which become responsibilities. These things become of place by the nature of what is man and what is woman. Both and Each, valued in what it takes to make a house becomes shared as a home for Man, Woman and Children... By the learning of and with each other, they make 'whole what is a family'. Between Man , Woman and Child; Misuse or Abuse has no place, nor shall it, nor they, reside for long in a house together.
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