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only the honest and sincere will find "love" !!! Sadly, many women find it difficult to choose a man, because they are looking for material gains, status gains, and such things. The women who seek love, generally find love, because they remove all reservations from her heart and mind and invest herself to give and share the quality and works of love to make love work and make it last. When a man see's a woman who claims she can't find love. Often time, the problem is within the woman. She has not relinquished the fantasy of holding out looking for material gains, or status gains, and she continues to hold reservation in her mind for these things. some women rate themselves so high in the vanity category, that when they get in their minds, they will only settle for this or that level of wealth, material matter or social status, she will do all she can to find every means to reject love no matter how sincere the mans love is, because she is more focused on the material, the status and the wealth aspects. Many rely on their looks, and the lure of sx and measure much based on whether it attracts her wealth or status or brings her the offers of material things. some become so elated by any level of achievement, they set criteria that has more aim to emphasis her vanity and selfishness until she will deem any suitor unfit.. because it supports her self elation about her own vain self acclaim. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Love in the reality of what it is, has no concern for any of such vain things of the mind. Nor will any find love who has such vain things within the driving force of the mind. Man should not chase woman, for he will always find that he has only chased his own illusions - He must stand still and become aware, a woman who wants to love a man, will find her way to come to that man. but she will come only through honesty and she will come with her own virtue to love that man. He need not be blind nor easily misled, but remain with his eyes open or by these same means, some many use as a tactic.. he needs only know and pay attention to motives and intentions, which will continually reflect itself through the nature of considerations that come forth without appeasements being required. . |
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When a man see's a woman who claims she can't find love. Often time, the problem is within the woman. She has not relinquished the fantasy of holding out looking for material gains, or status gains, and she continues to hold reservation in her mind for these things. Love in the reality of what it is, has no concern for any of such vain things of the mind. Nor will any find love who has such vain things within the driving force of the mind.
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