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" Love is the gift" - Unto the Humbled in Heart “The Perfect Person” A delusion… that confounds many The adult sized fantasy of "a perfect person", is probably one of the elements of imagination and delusion, that has driven people "mad" for Centuries upon Centuries.. Temptations will always haunt the individual, and the illusion of perfect is not even a conceptual image in the minds of an individual, because every day, they will want to change something else about the other, and themselves. It's amazing how we can be adults and claim to be so intelligent and so learned and then become less equipped than an infant in our concepts of how to simply appreciate the uniqueness of the individualism of human existence. It seems the older some get the more insidious they become, in search of a delusion that they themselves have not found out how to live up to even within themselves. The Grand Delusion seems to be a sickness that comes with the concepts of claiming to be learned people. maybe it’s why many of the poor and those nation and people around the world who don't claim such high intellect, still know how to love for the sake and principle of love, even when they are without the conveniences and the luxuries that the so claimed learn have in abundance. The great paradox of "self-delusion” is now a sickness that many seem not to want diagnosed nor will they acknowledge the need for the diagnosis. “Self vanity seems to not allow the desire of such truth". Loving don't give a damn about anyone’s claim of degree or work status titles, at best it can and will continue to make them try and see how foolish their aim and claim of reliance on such, brings them to see that none of such claims can ever nor will ever give nor guarantee them any claim to a care free "love"... And most people run around looking for a 'care free" love, and caught in the delusion of the chase of such, until they can't many time figure out how to love themselves enough to have it over flow into wanting to share it with someone else. Instead, they are lost in their status titles and their claims of be learned. but they are and often times become only more pronounced in their ignorance of what is love and what is the nature of works required within loving. Today, we have more and more people who claim themselves too good for building love, because they are too absorbed in their titles, and their claims of status they focus upon to try and embellish their titles. And the result is a mass of loveless people, who claim to be so learned. None of which composes love, as of being what is Love, nor is any of such the fact and principle of what is love is; such things, Love, cares not one bit about such. For Love is itself, fulfilled in being itself. We can see broke people who live on the streets who have love far greater and strong than some of those who claim to have degrees layered on top of degree's or who have titles that pay them a kings bounty, and they often times become the worst at loving. They try to outsmart love, and find themselves feeling more foolish as they wallow in their aloneness and crafted delusion of trying to outsmart the principles of love. There will be many more to sit on a bench, withering to their skeletal selves, all the while deluding themselves to think they are too smart and too learn and their titles and status claims make them too arrogant and haughty to know that love cannot be bought nor contained by such vain things. When truth and fact is, love flees quickly from Ignorance, and love does not bond itself within the haughty mind, nor does it seek to duel with the delusion of foolishness. Education degree not required, money, not required, title nor status is required, for all such things have a proclivity to become vanity, and vanity is a vexing demeanor to what the essence and nature of beauty of that which love is. Such things of vanity, only enrages the regenerating 20 head dragon that guards love, when they come with all their vain acclaims and crafted schemes.  For the 20 head dragon only yields the gift of Loves endless graces, unto the humbled, who pursue the engagement unto loves many wonders within loving, who seek to know and to share "LOVE". One can take money and buy a delusion of a million flairs, and by status claims one can impress a fool, to chase a delusion by painting imagines of illusions... But unto love, only the humbled and honest who seek with truth of passion to love and be loving and accept the embrace of being loved, can truly know and behold the wonders of Love through humbleness unto loves graces and accept the duties within loves works. Such a simple thing, many become too haughty within themselves to care to learn and many care even less to seek to understand, therefore.. Many fail to gain the wisdom's of loves truths. Love is the gift that lives in the shared lives of the humbled. --------------------------------------------------------------------------- Love is no respecter of individuals, love remains what it is, it is universal in what it is, it can function across any man created barrier, or any conjured concept that man hangs on to. Love does not regard nor favor any ethnicity, nor any skin color,; and it favors no gender or any of such things, and love does not have a preference for any particular age. Love is of many principles, which can only be embrace mutually by shared honestly and expressive communications. It remains always a feeling, which has a spiritual connection within the essence of all living beings and things. It is unique in being what it is, and it bring about the uniqueness of each individual - We as people blind ourselves with the deceptions of our own eyes and many times the lusting for the material matter that is surely to come and go with time... Yet, love is of the spirit, and it is everlasting as being Love. Those who can endure the many emotions within what makes up love will find more love... within the truths and honesty they live and share. You can try and steal the sweetness as if robbing honey from a honey comb and one may get stung by the bees - but with love, the bee's yield their honey and continue to make more. Most can't find love, because many refuse to let go of their own selfishness. Love is to be shared as freely as the breeze shares it comforts, Love is to be shared the same as sunshine denies no plant the nourishment's it needs to live. So many delude themselves to only see the fantasy of their lust for romantic fancy, but neglect to consider and some don't care for the labors and works that are embedded within Love. Many who find that 40- 50 and beyond years of love, have learned to give and share freely... and each will tell you of the many sacrifices and change and growths they have gone through to build such an enduring loving relation... simply because they cared to " Love' The world is lonely only when our selfishness brings us to ignore and deny to engage the works of loving. Which is simply learning to share and communicate, to respect and appreciate, to work to understand and work on being understood.. when the selfishness of individual, make an individual lazy and fearful of such things, then they have made themselves lonely, by their denial to embrace Love, and become one who is sharing the expressions and exchanges of loving. Seek not love through sympathy by the cries of desperation. But share what of love you know and what of loving you have to share in jubilation... and time will find one enchanted within a loving relation. |
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I really don't get the massive amount of non-responsive people, especially on a topic about love, (when it discusses something that extends beyond, the lust for romantic arousal of selfish fantasy sequence ) .... No wonder people have such a disaster of a time, meeting and having a sustainable mating relation. No one cares to think and express beyond a slap stick humor sequence. But, as so with everything in life, if that is the habit "you" practice, then that is the answer to why "your"have the habitual nature of encountering shallow relationships, Because people not only become the habits they engage, they attract the habits they indulge. Most of these short lived relationships fall apart the minute people have to talk about reality and the elements of individuals functioning with honesty about realism. credit it to your own manner of only talking about fantasy and trying to avoid what exist in realism of making and sustaining a relations. maybe when people talk about realism, they can then appreciate the intimate moments without going into panic mode, when they encounter life challenges during the cycles of relating.
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