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Workplace Relationships That is reserved for those attractions which have a specific sxual energy connection which is often times signaled by an attraction and ratified by a mutual attraction and a hell of a lot of mutual understandings. Each had best be solidly 'individuals" who are solidly self responsible". Then they become less prone to expect 'favors' in the work place, just because they lay face to face in the bed. On the performance level of the jobs, many of the women I've worked with over the many years in the professional environment of employment have generally showed a good determination to learn and do their jobs and to do them well. It is unfair to the women for the man, to be biased in the performance acknowledgment of woman. If she can do the job, she can do the job, no more and no less regard of which a man would receive is what she is due to be afforded as an employee in the workplace. As a man, it is a responsibility, to not allow, nor become a party of the category of woman who chooses to use female lure, more than human person performance as a means to progress. For the same matter, it is neither of any reason nor motive for a man to neither allow nor be party to a male friend, using friendship as a means to progress. It's business, keep it business. If a man and woman find they are attracted and sensually motivated to connect. then when you come to work, you each need to come as 'individuals" who come to do your job as an individual professional person. If you can't do that, then one or the other, or both should transfer to separate areas where they can function as individual professionals, and then their relations of intimacy does not become an issue within their work area. If it comes to a sales rep, and you are in a position to authorize a contract or by any means influence the contract. It is best to leave that alone. Regardless if it is a man being pursued by a female sales person, or a female being pursued by a male sales person. Because it is a given fact, if that relations goes sour it will become an issue. If it does not go sour, you still may loose your job and so could the sale person. because it is in principal and "ethical violation". Not only can or possibly that you will lose your job, both of your integrity will be tarnished, and within the business world, what you have greater than your ability to perform is, your integrity. You choose how much value you put on it, or if you recognize and understand its value. Up front disclosure is the pathway if the attraction is of the strength to be undeniable, then the contract is not jeopardized and the management of it can be assigned to someone else. If you bring the temp and tease game into the workplace, then what befalls you is within your own doing. If you approach a situation where you can make malicious use of someone’s attraction unto you, then you again, may become a victim of your own doing. What is real and what is often true,... individuals, assume they can outsmart the observations of people. Some think they can be slicker than a piece of oiled glass, and often times when they try to walk on it, they end up on their ass. Discernment, disclosure, and many variables become into the realm. Therefore people may truly care to be of consideration of much, before their lack of considerations propels them into a situation of being left with less. Because it can become quickly a "mess". There exist some infrequent situations which do work out for people, but it because they put in the work to make it work. Today, many people do make relations within the work areas, often times in different departments, different divisions and different work areas. It is not a situation for non mature adults to play games with, unless you simply don't like your job, and don't care about the issues that become at play within the environment. There are some people who are married and work in the same industry, in different department and different divisions, and they respect it as being such, and do not interfere with each others work, nor make each other work area a hang out place. Many views and many opinions have and will continue to exist about this particular area of society. And always there is potential for love to exist and become developed in any given situation where men and women interact as human beings. |
