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Don't get caught chasing a mirage. Based on the blog post: [post 235991] Why would any of these women have some wild and crazy assumption that some guy is just going to hook her up with what ever he has achieved or acquired. Do (SOME) of these women really think their face and the pretentious delusional lure and game of sx is going to make these men become instant fools. as some of the old spinsters, how many times their games have backfired on them and left them old and wondering what the hell happened to her life and times. (she wasted it, trying to barter something she could not deliver) ... Geez, something must be wrong or maybe their is a sickness in the air, that creates these fantasy delusions in peoples minds. ANY MAN, who trips out over the look and the game, will not only get burned he will probably will become very anguished when he finds the truth. As to finding a woman, maybe people should learn how to look for a friend, if they happens to decide to share the bed, then they need to know that does not make it instantly become a relationships, it simply means they both decided they'd share some time doing stuff in bed. NUMBER ONE POINT: No one owes the other anything, for the claim for being friends, no one has any obligation to give or do anything for anyone, as friends, or as associates, or a people who reach a 'barter agreement".. and for those who barter, the man better be very sure that kind of transaction is exactly as it would be if he hired a or picked up a street barterer... a set price with no condition of residual pay. !!!! It's a closed end deal. I honestly don't know where these women get the idea that being Chinese or Being Asian is suppose to dupe a man to assume her to be of some higher virtue or honesty or any of such, than any other woman has potential to be, if that woman chooses to be of those things. There have been many a men who bought women back with a delusion that she was something that she is not, and when he is not spending or giving her money or making her life care free, he finds a world of hell that he never imagined. Some of these women with that 'Studio Polished Picture'... probably have a polished agenda as well with a magnifying glass to scan your financial situations. There are some women who are just natural, but that is no guarantee of anything either.. But what a man needs most to do, is talk as individuals, promise nothing and don't start giving these women things. And you will find out very quickly how quick many of them will flee or come up with 20 excuses or every sort. If you want to do something, build friendships.. it requires no money to make friends, you don't have to promise anything other than to be friendly and to be honest as a person in being so. Don't ever let the delusion cause you to make promises that you may later regret when the truth comes to surface. As to values, people have various values across the world, and also across cultures there are many other values people have that can and do many times differ. If you have not put in time to develop friendship, then you probably won't find it either. But for any man if you are in a hurry, you may fare better to realize that you can purchase an agreement with a random barterer on any continent in the world. Beware: The World has many types of "SWINDLERS" Quiet does not mean anything but quiet, pretty does not mean anything but they are externally pretty to look at, soft voices does not mean anything but a voice is soft, Don't try and make these things mean something which there is no guarantee that it even remotely means any more than it singularly is. The women should be equally aware that if you are chasing the delusion of money and someone sell's you a fantasy and you find out there is not pot of gold, then you fell for it, so only blame yourself. It's a two way road... and if you travel it blind you may have a head on collision, get rear ended or you may just smash into someone else. Don't let the lust of the illusion of fantasy love scenarios make you become a fool unto yourself.. Learning to love is a process... you may find quick infatuation, but if you expect to have love, then you better prepare to nurture and grow it carefully. Some women will jump in the bed and pretend to be motivated, and 3 months later if they did not get the prize they were expecting, they close their legs tighter than a vise grip. at that point, you find out what is the truth and what she was really seeking. Some men spend money at first and when he finds out that he either has gotten what he wanted to buy, or find out that what he was trying to by was not what he though it was, then he too will be gone. For such situations, people would do best to either become and or use an service to find an for the short term desires they allow to drive their lives. Don't be a fool and think just because she plays the hard to get and play the keep her legs closed game, that it means anything in particular, It could be just the game that she thinks will work in a given situations. Pay attention and deal with reality and live far and beyond your fantasy drives and you just might find out how to navigate reality. if you find reality, ... then you will also find, that love is something that grows by the honest and honorable works of two... Don't get caught chasing a mirage. ---- |
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yes, simple and basic person to person, friend to friend communications ... what is the saying; "The greatest of loves is a friendships which has caught the fires of love's flame"
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Owwwwwwwwww  Love and life are not as simple as we wish, arent they? I do believe " We reap what we sow..." By doing my best to do good thing and treating others as good as I want to be treated.. I pray GOD would give a hand to find my way BTW, thank you for sharing Beyondfantasy3. A very good reminder......
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