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The Selfish Glory Games of Vanity Consumption The selfish glory games of vanity consumption is the sure killer of loves truth and the destroyer of truth in loving. [None of this is to neither claim nor state that men don’t have equally as many self serving vain glory seeking trips. But be assured and confirmed in your awareness, that his vain self glory seeking trips does not dismiss hers, nor does her vain self glory seeking trips dismiss his... It serves in each of them the need to first become honest with themselves, and honorable to what they claim they respect and appreciate about love, and what of integrity and dignity they will establish and honor within themselves to be a person who is capable of loving and being loved. ] Selfish Glory Games Some (( Not All )) of these women who claim they are so into love, but they have such extensive limits in their ability and function to engage dialog, unless its about some selfish expectation they had about someone indulging in a process and program of kissing their butt or promising to worships some of their pretentious and self serving expectations, just because she is flashing a little leg, and trying to lure something with their bikini and then they have the audacity to claim they want someone to like them for them. When all she has shown and demonstrated is that she is a covert stripper trying to get a tip. That's the barter mentality that is so prevalent in much of what results of the web as well as those in general public. When all they highlight is the delusion of erotic, that is nothing more than a baited hook, and often time with spoiled dead bait on the hook.. the minute they get the idea that you might like banging them, the machine groomed mind starts to spin in the circle of games to feed her selfish whim, followed by selfish like tantrums when she can't manipulate and get someone to give her stuff and do favors for her to get her way. If many review the situation, there is rarely an argument unless she can’t find a way to manipulate thing to meet her selfish concerns and aims. I do wonder what type of people expect to find love, through patronizing lure base communication, that does not engage nor discuss whom they are and what they think about life and the various elements that make up the things they claim to be afraid of or the things they claim is what they seek to find a common basis. What it really comes down to in many situations, may well be that, people like to find someone to bang, and when they don't want to bang them anymore they are on looking for someone else to bang.. But they want to pretend that it is love they are seeking, when in principal; many are trying to “get their bell rung' and their ego elated. While pretending it about love, when it really just about their pursuit of ego elation and the selfish aim of erotica of romantic fantasy they are seeking Often times, it’s the things in the mind that many are reluctant to discuss and put all efforts to hide... Some only want a temporary fix for their situational loneliness because they find themselves without someone to patronize them and pump up their ego. Even still there are many, who have listed to other pump their head with garbage, telling them they deserve this or that. And they foolishly go out thinking someone owes them something, or they expect to have some specific butt kissing program engaged by someone, to flatter their ego. Yes, you know if any of this applies to you!!!! If none of it applies to you, you will find love, and probably have already found it. And you probably know how to get off your expectations and actually appreciate and respect it. If you have not found it and claim you can't find it, then the first thing you need to review is "YOURSELF". Are you one of those who claim that your last relationship failure was always and all someone else fault.. If so, not only are you a foolish person, but you are not self responsible to review and acknowledge your part in the mutual failure of the relationship. The more society pushes the delusional claim that university degree's are more than they are, the less people with them are able to make and function in a relationship. In many ways a degree is nothing more than a "get a job certificate". In some ways it only implies that one has began a process of understanding how to learn about a specific field, it does not mean one is a master at life... nor does it mean one has become better as a human being than others. What people may miss is the fact that Degrees are handed out in categories of specific duty base functions. In some cases it stress the technical aspect so strongly, that many people who get them, loose the great connection and understanding of the human compassion level of basic humane common sense. Therefore, the point being... your degree has not a damn thing to do with neither your ability nor your capability to love, to be loving or understand how to accept being loved. More and more people over inflate their ego behind this process of trained madness and expect within a relationship that is suppose to be about sharing love.. they think this degree is suppose to make the other person be submissive to them by some means and some level, and many, which turns out to be very man, think the money they earn is suppose to give them the spectrum and placement to have their a** kissed. Some are so adamant in that quest, until they think their money makes them too good for anyone, just because they can pay bills and buy stuff. But such a mentality, tells the truth!!!!! - this is a material based person" and will probably be hell to live with, because they are materialistic to a level of consumption beyond what they will admit. None of this is to neither claim nor state that men don’t have equally as many self serving vain glory seeking trips. But be assured and confirmed in your awareness, that his vain self glory seeking trips does not dismiss hers, nor does her vain self glory seeking trips dismiss his... It serves in each of them the need to first become honest with themselves, and honorable to what they claim they respect and appreciate about love, and what of integrity and dignity they will establish and honor within themselves to be a person who is capable of loving and being loved. CHOICES: Run Away and Hide --- or Face Up and Strengthen Your Integrity.... The choice is always 'YOURS".. The decision will have much to do about and whether you reach a point to share love and build a loving relationship... |
