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the choice of chance is frequent in our lives - to love and share it. The many chances within a lifetime- is what we get.... to love, to share and to express and give, we too, get many chances to receive.... How often do we deny ourselves the chance, and then we limit our choice to take the chance. In so many ways we often live as if tomorrow is a guarantee. So often we live as though we have forever to ponder and delay the choice to act. Continually we find, as each moment passes we cannot regain it, nor do we get the exact moment returned, so we can do it over. We will never be as young again as we are today. as age comes it happens day by day, we don't awaken suddenly and find ourselves older, we become older day by day. It's our youth, that is forever fleeting, yet, each day we are younger than we will be tomorrow. As with each person within this site and the world for that matter, we may see the years roll past, but we still in many ways remain being the person we are, although we become wiser with the days and our bodies make the changes to adjust to our activity or our limit of activity. What we choose to eat, becomes many things in what becomes of us. Do we allow our bodies to process efficiently what we eat? do we use the energy from the things we eat, or does it stagnate in our system and store itself as fat. We know so little about the physiology of our sexuality, nor do we know the impacts that the physiology within our over-all health. We constrain much of this into psychological quandary. What transpires in the early stages of post puberty is a strong intermingling of our sexuality and its sensual arousal as the endorphins process infuses the energy within our whole being, we call "libido". Often we know so very little about the composure of the libido, as we wrap our moral conciseness into a mixture of many things with a resulting impact on the endorphins, thus a compound effect become evident in the libidos variations. the mechanism of our being is astounding in the level of complexity, but such complexity is of such a design that it comes together within the simplicity we make in actualizing our living processes within the spectrum of love's expanse. When we make our lives complex in the choices of chance and the chance of choice, to become confounded as to how we feel and what we have of aims, then our actions become stifled and the processes within what is the make up of us, become equally so, stagnated in a confounding cycle of imbalances. This is why "Love" is so powerful, because love is decisive, it is a committed feeling that invigorates the self, to give, to receive, to appreciate, to be creative, to be expressive, to be and become passionate and sensual, all of these things converge to make us feel full activated in being and living. We should work hard at all times to have and keep love in our lives. not only is it an invigorating force, it is a healing energy which has no match via any other methods. This nature of Love, is not just about a sensual romantic absorption, but a sense and nature of appreciation, as well that extends and includes the instances and situations where sensual romanticism are intermingled. For those who think sex is the only answer missed the point, and for those who think a life without sensual and social as well as sexual energy is the answer equally so missed the point. We are by natural design, built to mate. Some species have a life that is driven to mating and then they pass away, such as that of the beautiful butterfly... but with the complexity of the human being, we have the capacity and ability to mate to invigorate as well as sustain the energy force within our being, that ultimately nourished our entire being. We by choice, allow material gain, material pursuits and material consumption bring us stresses and self measuring challenges which becomes a cycle destined to diminish us, because it requires a continual feeding of these material acquisition, We find this true, in the rush some people get from shopping, or the shopping compulsion that many become driven by as their feeding source to get a simulation of feelings, which are not dis-similar to what comes within a situation of sharing loving exchanges. but the deficit of this avenue is itself a diminishing of our natural being in the context of what drives and sustains the healthy over-all of our being. We see the compulsive shopper live by the spikes of the purchase or acquisition and the peaks and valleys become in need of more and more acquisitions, as well as more costly acquisition, as we equate such to living well. Therefore again, we miss the power and understanding of what is love and how love functions in our well being. We see to choose a substitute method, and it remains substandard to bring about the endomorphism of healthy being. [quote] { endomorphisms are maps from a set into itself, and may be interpreted as unary operators on that set, acting on the elements, and allowing to define the notion of orbits of elements, etc. "consider what is moods" ! Depending on the additional structure defined for the category at hand , such operators can have properties like continuity, boundedness, and so on. [end quote} We often forget that our physical self is of many chemical reactions which have a multitude of mathematical systems within its operations. but we understand it in the context of usage of medicines, as some use various illicit intoxicants to induce a variety of mental states. Yet, each pursuit of such, only renders a insufficient simulation of what can naturally be gained through a truly communicable loving interaction and association with a mate as well as within a social community association and interaction. Do we wonder why some as they age retain their vitality, and some become stoic in composure and constrained in fluidity. Such can result from the lack of "interactive love" within their living. a developed habit, we often get from fear, pain, apprehension and many modes we adopt from experiences of unrequited attempts to love and share it. Yet, in some cases our own fears, and apprehension become many times a habitually build contributor to the unrequited aims at loving. We can become and many do, become overzealous, and overly expectant and many other imbalances which become interpreted as the building blocks that result to fears and apprehensions. We can become love sick... in many variations of what impacts our minds and bodies.. the lack of love brings many mal nourishment's within the over all of our being. We see it in as well as adults who are in some means and some ways deprived of a love and the love transpired within a loving environment of social and individual personal interchanges of loves expressions. |
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It is a live and learn life. In life we learn what is good for us and bad. " for sure"  We may deem some as such, but truth be so, it is us who is the party to be responsible in how we manage our love with those whom we'd otherwise deem unlovable. Equally so, it is our responsibility to depart from those whom are habitual abusers of our love and compassion. When we pour out everything without considered acknowledgement of the potential and/or actual mis-use and/or abuse some may engage, We may become enraged, but in such potential per-consequential situations. We may take pause to be and become aware and thus manage our investments with such persons or individual; no less the same care we would with our resource investments.. When a situation is ripping one dry of resource, we pull back and began to manage how we invest. Like with that of gambling or playing the structure of stock market gaming. We only come through without remorseful anguish, if and as we manage well how we invest, through good attention, reflective interpretations and risk / benefit measure of knowing when to step away, retract our involvement and depart the scene. In such situations we may take steps to gain more understanding as well as include more patience to give us perspective to interpret an understand, that we may guard against such abuse and mis use. This become the usage of gained wisdom's.
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