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many relations falter.. Life is such a trip but it always tells its stories... Many women never face nor admit, being a catalysis in the default of relationships. But if and as one watch the demeanor of many women, they are motivated to seek to exert not only control but they expect to have others conform to their way of things, or their caption of thinking. When they can't control something they either shut down, or try and block it out. When ever a man hears a woman say the relationship fell apart because: "all because" of the guy, and exempt herself from any fault... It's a sure giveaway that her level of expectation is far and beyond just casual.. it is almost at the point of uttering demands, and then they sling out ultimatums... It should be an indicator to men, which women not to choose. As such demeanor demonstrates, its evident there will be a house filled with contentions any time he does not submit and yield to her.. and her aims. Sadly, men must be careful whom he sleeps with, because the minute he sleeps with some women, they do develop or it comes to the surface, that he is expected to be one who submits to her ideas and concept of ideal, where he is captioned as nothing more than a role player, to a script that ultimately is all about her. It generally comes to a point where the term " Irreconcilable Differences" is the summation. This is not to say there are not some men who are the same way toward women... but if men note, in general society of meeting and greeting, If money is not the basis, then much becomes about what the woman thinks her ideal is and how she thinks she can shape that man to meet and fit the role she imagined for him. The men who are happy in relationships, do not choose these type of women, and the men who have long term relationships know well that this was not the type of woman he could have chosen. these are the men who chose women who not only appreciate hims, but respects him and acknowledges that the relationships is only built with the combined dreams and wants of each, not just of hers. Many women are only sociable, if the man is submissive to her views and willing to take on the role she has outlined in her dream plan for him. When she is faced with abandoning that level of selfishness, many will rather dissolve the relations and try and blame it on the man. rather than make changes in herself and let go of her self-centered dictatorial mentality.. but their very words tell the real truths, when they first began to utter the phrase: "he would not do this", "he did not do that", and "if he had been", "he should have"... and etc... If you encounter these types, it is wise for a man who does not want a contentious house, to keep stepping...  If he is already in one of these crazed relationships, it is his time to state the fact that it will not continue under the banner of such self- centered demeanor as if it is only about her and her ideals, but it has to be one built that supports the melding of both ideals. |
