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The sillest things man and woman become attracted to each other.... and the part that makes it silly is, either the man or the woman pretending they don't know the others wants to 'hook them up"... this to me is the silliest thing between people who call themselves intelligent human beings. One of the most natural acts between male and female and then thry make it into something stupid by pretending they don't know the other wants to get 'sensually entwined in a shared hook up" of doing some sxual interplay and activity. Instead of dealing with the reality, they get into all sorts of drama sequences about a bunch of stuff that neither of them wants to hold to as some life mode, in their attempts to try and pretend everything is important but the fact they want to 'do each other'... Generally, what it comes down to is nothing more many times other than a covert manner of saying " chase me"... until I catch you. In some cases it becomes nothing more than a game of "Simon Said", to see what loops they can get the other to jump through as if they are training a puppy. Nothing prohibits people from getting to know the personality and character of the other, but in getting to know the character may well not need the delusional pretense as if one or the other is some non sexual inclined being. they may agree not to do something at a particular time, or until a particular time, but the silliness of pretending one does not know the other has interest in the sexual aspects of the other and has desires to engage it, is where the silliness starts... Much of it becomes nothing but a - prompting to get their ego stroked for vanity sake, while they push the pretense into both of them being fake about the reality of their lives... then when they do get together, they want to act shocked they did not pay attention to the whole of each other. Instead they were too busy trying to pretend to be some sexually innocent being. later, it becomes the sex aspect that is at the root of the break up, because one is not getting it like they want from the other. or they bartering game become not to produce what one or the other bartered for... then they try and blame the discord on everything except the truth(s). |
