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Controversial Inquiry Does it appear that some women want to be treated like a toy? because many only respond to comedic things, and slap stick jokes.. Is there anything to the comment one poster made, which said: " women have long hair and short wits" ? Very rare is it that only a few of the women comment on any subject other than comedic post, or romantic fantasy... generally, they don't comment on natural disasters, science, governmental changes, national issue or anything that affects the general environment of life. What's really odd is many of them will post with a claim that they are congenial, caring and loving, as the general theme. But if that is the case, then why is there such a high escalation in break up and so many have little concern to no effort to invest in building relationships. but they can and do expect someone to cater to their whims, be a yes man to their dictates and if he does not act like he is smitten by the thing between their legs, or blinded by the look of their face...they are ready to jump ship and go looking for someone who will devote their life to patronizing them as if they are the latest toy of the day. Maybe laughter and jokes is what they care about most, because many of them even in the poll studies, state, "oh I like him because he makes me laugh"... Is it that many are simply looking to entertain or be entertained ? do they not have compassion for things of natural disasters ? are they unaware of the political changes that impact civil society? Why do some promote themselves as a sx toy image, but then get in a relation and want to claim they are less interested in the same thing they advertised themselves for ? Are they mainly interested in who can provide them with material things and monetary means ? Is any of this the reasons why so many of them fail at understanding the concerns of men and can't deal with the reality of broad based concerns some men have outside of her looks or her sex. Why is it that so many relationships seem to break up behind the silliest things, of : do you think I'm pretty, with claims that he does not make her feel pretty, or he is not 'hitting that thing, like she expects", or other such things. Or some who complain about the time men spend at his job. but they like living based on what he earns, but seem to think he can earn it by staying home looking at her. |
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Thank you for your comment, it provides basically a sample of the difference in focal matters which exist between men in women. that is the point that writing was aimed as addressing, I don't need to utter any put down, the objective of the post is exactly as the title stated. "controversial Inquiry".. which is meant to point out the difference in the things men and women in general focus upon. It sadly fits with what society has groomed over many decades, But there are many women who are working to over throw the concept and the perspective, which is the women who push for the equality in rights, and in pursuing those equality in rights, they also address the matters of "natural disasters, science, governmental changes, national issue or anything that affects the general environment of life. It is this aspect of what some women address which led to and supported the push for women to get the right to vote, it is this same nature that pushed for women to be eligible for equal employment and pursue equal pay. Likewise so, it is the same women who expand to talk about these various things which leads to the promotion of studies into improving and focusing on women's health issue. I already expected that some women would take it as you have, rather than look into the broader aspect of what the subject was designed to invoke and incite the explorations to show the expansive involvement in what makes this world function. No need for any particular hostility toward you, society has long engaged to groom and push and promote the image of general everyday day woman to be silent on these various matters. As the system so called framed it up, to so call "keep women in their place"... But, I don't aspire to such a concept, because women are part of what makes up the world, but silence on matters that affect the world does not promote the position of woman in the broader context. you take offense, without thinking beyond agitation. But what do you see in general society, " women portrayed as body objects", women depicted in media setting as being consumed in material fashion things, and a list of a thousand superficial things and captions. Before anger causes the mind to shut down, it is well good to think beyond the anguish to always look for the broader depth. The world continues to demonstrate that the patronizing gambit game of women accepting being patronized as a place holder control mechanism. I depict it, and instead of addressing it beyond the anguish, you attack the writer rather than address the subject content. This is much in the process of why the gap and divide exist so wide between men and women. I give great regard to the women who engage the worlds affairs in their concerns, because it most certainly will be things that affect her and the children she bring into this world. Since we have become a society where the single mother dominates the landscape, so much has been lost as to the investment of human focus and energy into promoting a resolve to the many challenges being faced in daily life. This is what has been far too frequently a resulting subsequence of the single parent family. Republican process has engaged to push their agenda to strip women of the rights to make choices about her life, and they did all they could to fight against the equal pay for women among many other things, and within the repeal of the voting rights, that repeal involves something that not only concerns minorities and the poor, it involves women as well, because their right to vote is tied within the mix of these bills. The content of any subject and the subject matter behind any title has much to consider and many thing of address. certainly beyond just the arousal of misplaced anguish or the frustrations to lash out without understanding the perspective of aim and intent of the title as well as the structure of the subject content.
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A British model and mom is ditching her life of posing in lingerie for one of modesty and obedience as a Muslim wife, said U.K. reports on Monday. “Meeting Mohammed has made me really look at my life,” Carley Watts, a model who regularly bares almost all for publications such as Elite Online Magazine, told the Sun about her lifeguard boyfriend, Mohammad Salah. She added, "My friends think I'm mad and that this is just a phase." The two met while Watts was vacationing in Salah’s native Tunisia in April, when, Watts explained, every man flirted with her except for Salah. "I saw it as a challenge," she told the Sun. "I went over one day and asked him his name. His English wasn’t very good so at first we spoke in a mixture of English and what little French I remember from school. We went for a walk on the beach together and things developed from there, but all we did on the first trip was have a kiss." She went back to visit him three weeks later and they soon fell in love. So in October, the model says, she and her 2-year-old daughter, Alanah, will move from Norfolk to Monastir, in Tunisia, where she will convert to Islam before marrying Salah in the spring. ________________________ Women are a big part of how a society functions. We as a society of people should be aware of the varying cultural involvements of the women in the areas, because that mixture of such, has a lot to do about determining the tone of the cultural environment. In the area I live, many of the organizations which provide public services for the citizen populations is dominated with women, they run these facilities, they are focused in the professionalism of both image and manner to operate and provide these services to the public. Its a very different climate of women who are doing these works. what is interesting, I do see a contrast in some area where there are many many women into the novelty image presentations. the trip is many of those areas seem to have a more robust income model, and become more attracting to a tourist income. It's something quite interesting about the contrast of areas where there are many young women who are out and about doing the entertainment things, shopping and just strolling.. Vs area's where they are more conservative in the social atmosphere as it relates to women and how they present their image and manner in public. The same is true in area that religion and church participation is every high and areas where it is not. This area is considered part of the bible belt... it has its own mix of unique dynamics in these aspects.
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I'm cool.. many post I write are often mis-understood and thought to be bashing women. but they are far from that in aim, intent and content. I present often time captions or paint an image of a situation, the objective is for women to look at it, and see it is not achieving their aims to present themselves in these ways, for the things they want at heart. I posted in a previous comment on another blogs a though I had this morning: _________________ Some men go for women because of the sex and find out they have to deal with the whole person.. ( then conflict arises) Some women go for men because of the sex and material support and realize they have to deal with the whole person. ( then conflict arises) But those who win and build good relationships, are the ones who go for the whole person, and find out that the sex and other things comes along with the whole of the person. Those who play sex tease games, sex bartering games, and use sex to try and catch, hold and control, will always result to become dumbfounded within themselves and then anguished at the other person, because their tactical schemes did not get them control and benefits. Only those who engage sex, as a openly and upfront 'SHARING", are the ones who not only learn better how to appreciate sex, they learn better how to appreciate their own sex and that of the person they are sharing it with. Those who try and play coy games about sex, and covertly try and claim it as a manipulative tool, with unreal criteria, become the ones who come to detest sex and result to be jaded in their own sexual demeanor. they will often claim to be hurt and the blame is placed every place except to reflect upon the core of their own conduct as well as participation in the events that transpired. ___________________________________ Society, from the media and sadly to say the homes and the folklore among people... generally promotes a great deal of this wrong way uses of the physical attributes of presence,. women are bombarded with every kind of advertisement and marketing ploy which ties to make her into some "object" .. from make up ads, to clothes, to every kind of thing imaginable. then this is compounded by the entertainers, who have become to loose conscience of their talent, and revert to trying to get as naked and provocative as they can in the video captions. They lessen themselves and don't know it, but at the same time, the media hype pumps it up, until other women loose themselves trying to emulate this madness. It's insidious to see entertainer with all the money they can want, more homes than they can live in, but they can't make a relationship last for anything. so now all they promote is get as naked as possible, be a bazaar as they can be and make babies and claim they can't find a man. I see some of them are pretty to look at, but even if I was in that arena of wealth or media, I'd make certain that I would not choose any of these I see on the screens. If you note, there are only a select few who can maintain a relationship, and they are the one's that you don't see on the media snippit shows. nor do you see them plastered all over the tabloids. In fact some of them, you don't hear about them until they do their promo before their product release, and then you don't hear about them anymore. until their next project. Look at the system, every one they have claimed to be a sex symbol, has been on multiple merry go rounds, and as they age, they turn to plastic, buying surgeries trying to hold on to something that was not real in the first place. It was media hype. many people, don't look at this stuff and realize, those 'shiny happy commercial people" have been staged by make up artist for hours, crafting a look, and then they are paid to exaggerate an image of delight. People buy stuff and base even their outing on trying to recreate this staged imagery, and then become disenchanted, because their reality does not match the commercial.. But here's a simple way to look at it. Take any pill commercial, they put these happy people up on the screen, talking about the wonder's of the pill... FOLLOWED BY,, a list of side effects which is so long, it is practically telling you, that it will cause a multitude of other complications. then the commercials goes off with the people 'still smiling"....  Back to the subject: Men enjoy seeing women happy, but not for her to put on a pretense by false means, nor to try and project a happy images by dubious means of game based temps and teases, which will generally become more like a gimmick which is quickly followed by a multitude of insecurity cycles of seeking to be convinced that she is liked for these antics... He is looking for the women who can drop the pretentions, and stop the 20,000 a day testing antics. Sadly, it takes often times many young girls years, to grow beyond this and learn how to be themselves as a simple individual and to share that reality with someone. on the slap stick side of things, the only thing a game based Temp and a Tease will get ... is two people screwed then they want to beat the heck out of each other. I see the movies promoting this craziness where if the women does not get her way, the man is suppose to sleep on the couch... I think that is crazy and send a crazy message... and tries to imply that the woman controls something with her sex. It's the most insane madness imaginable. because in simple fact, if he is not getting any from her, then it is a given that she is not getting any from him... so what's the point ? Too much teach too many women, that they can use sex as some 'gambit prize'... and again, the only things happens is two people get screwed (up) in the end. For me, if a woman does not enjoy sex for the simple nature of sharing it, then she can go and find some foolish guy who will get caught in a game that neither of them can win. Even If I buy a hooker, I don't care if she wants the money, my concern is "do you like sex", period... because if she does not like sex, then it does not make much sense to me to deal with her... because somewhere there is one that does actually like and enjoy it. But anyway, I write and have been writing these things for many years, and I said long ago, if women read it, and actually look into what is written in a broad minded view and not one of contempt, they will gather the points being put forth. Appreciate your understanding. 
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Random share: going on a trip with your significant other to me, these days, just to do it, seems too much of a luxury. Sometimes you need a rest, but for me, a rest is finding a really good hotel, with really nice beds, near a pool or ocean that I can be in for a weekend. That would be luxury. I would love to do just that for vacation. To go to a place and ignore what's there, isn't my personal cup of tea. I don't like just being a "tourist" I'd want to be with the people, participating in positivity in whatever form. That's how I am and how I've become. I appreciate your response , it was very respectful, so thankyou for that. I never care much about the Tourist stuff, however I do enjoy the flow of people crowds in some situations, but I generally make my way to get a feel and flow of the everyday life of the people. this way, I don't see them as 'novelty'.. but as simply people doing what they do in their way of life. as to the entertainment, some places have unique manners of varieties of such than other places. I find what of it I like and that is what I deal with and indulges. I find time to go for walks and I find ways to get to some places where I can get a good over-view of the environment. I've always had a good time no matter where I've gone and generally meet very congenial people. I do enjoy many of the un-inhibited sectors, but I'm not so much for the blatant outlandish stuff. because I don't deal with it at home, so I'm not going to go 1000's of miles and cater to the outlandish in the concept of what I consider outlandish. Now, I don't go to the strip clubs here because we don't have many, and they are not set up like say, the beach cities of Thailand, that set up is like an entertainment zone more so, I will go in these type of places that I visit. I don't really consider it outlandish... I'm not for going any place sitting around a pool all day its just not my thing. But my first thing to do is, get comfortable with where I'll be staying... then I venture. I traveled with a friend ... he threw his stuff in his room and was ready to hit the streets... he did not like it that, I told him my first object is to set up my room... and get comfortable with my arrival to the locations, then I'm ready to go about and see what there is to see and do. for me, its comforting to establish the home base, so I know where to go when I'm tired to feel grounded.
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